Showing posts with label thrift store. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thrift store. Show all posts

Frugal Accomplishments // Buy Nothing New

>> Thursday, March 15, 2018

At the start of the new year, I did set a quiet goal for myself to buy as few new things as possible. I say "Buy Nothing New" . . . and I know full well I'll end up buying new things. For example, despite attempts to find a second-hand ninja uniform for Ada's new gymnastics class, I ended up having to buy new. Stuff like that happens, and I think it's easy to get dragged down.

So, my approach is to just shop less and to frequent thrift shops or online establishments that allow me to live my best second-hand life. I've mentioned before that the bulk of my wardrobe is made of used clothing. Specifically, I'm fond of old FLAX that dates back even to the 1990s. I can't wait to pull those pieces out again in the spring. We just got another 8 inches of snow, so it'll still be a little while.


Regardless, here is a list of things I've purchased/received second-hand recently:


  • Woven baby wrap (long story, I had sold my Didymos)
  • Size 8 LL Bean winter coat for Ada 
  • Size 10 Lands End winter coat for Ada
  • Several pairs of Stride Rite shoes for Eloise
  • Two gently used stainless steel fry-pans from my in-laws
  • A well loved, but still great wok from my in-laws
  • Toy vacuum cleaner for Eloise

This list isn't exhaustive. I simply can't remember where I left off sharing in my thrifting adventures. In general, I try my best to only buy used clothing for myself and the girls. Stephen doesn't seem to have as much luck finding sizes that work for him. He's a 29/32 pant, for example, and that is hard to come by at the thrift store. But I've found over the years I can get about 90 percent of our clothes used. I don't do underclothing, like underwear, bras, socks, etc. That's all new.

When it comes to anything baby/toddler gear or toys, I do try my best to either just say NO to needing more stuff. But if there is something I need or would make life easier, I head to Once Upon a Child, Thrifty Shopper, or Poshmark. I do browse around a babywearing buy/sell/trade group on Facebook, but I'm astounded at the prices. I'm not into the expensive stuff, though they sure are pretty!

For me, I suppose this goal is also more about not shopping as much. And when I feel the need to shop, trying to find something sturdy and inexpensive via thrift. And if that doesn't work, I try to live without whatever it is a bit longer. And if all else fails, I end up buying new.

What's your shopping philosophy? Do you want more updates like these? I'm thinking that sometime it might be fun for me to do a video of visiting the second-hand store with me. Or a photo post. Something to take you along for the ride! Let me know if that sounds interesting to you.

Related: 


Smart and Thrifty Tips for Buying Second-Hand Clothing
Why I Buy Mostly Second-Hand Clothing
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Let’s Talk LuLaRoe: The Good, Bad, and Ugly
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My Large Thrifting Haul + Cost

>> Wednesday, January 10, 2018

So, changing gears from clearing all clutter out of my house . . . I had a very productive thrifting trip last weekend. I only visited two stores for these items. The first is the second-hand shop that's a mile from my house. The second is the children's thrift shop across town.

Total amount spent: $86, which -- admittedly -- sounds like a lot. But stay with me!

The mission: Ada's stretching to the max in her size 6 clothing lately, so I am slowly collecting sizes 7/8. Eloise needed some cold weather stuff and a few basics, since Ada and Eloise were born in different seasons.

Anyway, here's what I bought for each family member.

For Ada:



  • Matilda Jane Top NWOT ($6)
  • Lands End Rocket Sweatshirt ($4)
  • Johnnie b Boden boatneck ($1)
  • Garnet Hill Kids fleece ($4)
  • Johnnie b Boden dress ($4)
  • Children's Place jeans ($3)
  • Dr. Martens boots ($10)
  • Minnetonka moccasins ($5)
  • Hanna Andersson dress NWOT -- not pictured ($3)
TOTAL: $40


For Eloise:



  • Hanna Andersson fleece ($4)
  • Hanna Andersson pants ($1)
  • Okie Dokie shirt ($2)
  • Unlabeled wool pants ($2)
  • Wool polka-dot jacket NWT ($4)
  • Saint James boatneck ($2)
TOTAL: $15


Also for Eloise:



  • Patagonia lightweight snowsuit/bunting ($14 -- half off, so $7)
  • Stonz booties NWT ($14 -- half off, so $7)
TOTAL: $14 (and these will fit next year, too -- and the snowsuit might stretch to age 3)


For Stephen:




L.L. Bean fleece shirt NWOT ($5)

TOTAL: $5


For Ashley:



  • Patagonia zip layer ($6)
  • Nike Dri-Fit Fleece ($6)
TOTAL: $12


More thrifting fun:

Smart + Thrifty Tips for Buying Second-Hand Clothing
FLAX + Why I Mostly Buy Second-Hand Clothing
Introvert’s Guide to Holding a Yard Sale
Frugal Accomplishments
5 FLAX Outfits // Summer Edition
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Smart + Thrifty Tips for Buying Second-Hand Clothing

>> Monday, August 14, 2017

So many of you have messaged me privately about my second-hand shopping escapades. It’s really one of my biggest hobbies. There’s definitely a method to my madness. One of my favorite bloggers -- Jessica over at What I Wore -- recently shared her own tips for shopping thrift, garage sales, etc. You should definitely check those out.

Here’s how I approach things, at least when it comes to clothing. I have a host of other tips for household and other items.


Make the rounds


A lot of people tell me they aren’t able to find good stuff at their local shops. And for some of you, that may be an ongoing issue, I understand. But for others -- don’t give up with just one visit! Consider that these places get new stock from time to time. How often will certainly depend on the shop, so it’s a good idea to ask the sales associates how often new stuff comes in.

I find that if I try to hit up all my local places in a rotation about every two weeks, I am able to see a wealth of goodies. Of course, I still see that crazy cat embroidered vest at Good Will even a month down the line, but many other awesome things have filtered into the aisles as well.

I also have discovered that where you go matters. We live in a large-ish area with many different pockets of age brackets, income levels, etc. While I have found good things at most stores . . . I tend to more heavily hit certain areas where I find the demographic more closely matches my own. Well, and also where middle-aged women who like FLAX clothing live.

Know your style


I know what I’m looking for. Usually natural fibers. Linen, mostly. FLAX the brand specifically (here are my 5 favorite FLAX outfits for summer). If you have a tried-and-true brand or fabric or cut or item you like, look for it specifically and try to forget the rest. In my own experience, I have picked up things that I would have never purchased simply because I thought it looked kinda sorta neat. Then? I never put it on because, well, it’s just not my style.

You may find it helpful to write down a list of things you like. Or things you need. But try to avoid getting random stuff that appeals to you based on price alone. I went through this period of time when I thought maybe I’d like to wear corduroy jumpers simply because I was finding a lot of them and they were cheap. Nope.

Oh, and while you’re at it, don’t hoard things just because they are what you’re “looking” for. Again, I LOVE FLAX . . . but I don’t need a lime green FLAX vest or something that doesn’t match my style.


Know your size


I really, really don’t recommend trying on thrift store clothing. Even while shopping at a “nice” store, I contracted scabies when I was in my early twenties. It’s helpful to know your size in different brands or simply by looking at the item. You may even want to bring a measuring tape with you to help. I tend to wear things big or in a freer size, so usually I’m pretty good if something is a tad too big on me.

Instead of trying on, I tie my bag tightly after leaving the store and immediately throw it in the wash when I get home. I dry in the dryer as well -- anything to help kill weird stuff that might be on there. I am usually just fine with sizing because I’m a ninja at this stuff. BUT I’m not immune to mistakes. So, that all said, if you do end up getting something home that just won’t work after washing, you may also try to re-sell it or donate it again if it only set you back a couple dollars.

Oh, and I would recommend checking all sizes. Some things are either in the wrong section (misplaced) or -- at least with vintage clothing -- sizes have changed over time. I wear anywhere between a 2 and 8 in different modern brands. With vintage, I can wear up to a 12!

Scan and keep moving


This goes with knowing what you want -- keep moving! If I stop too long to consider something, the chances are that I’m more convincing myself that it’s a good deal or whatever. If I see something that I immediately love, I grab it and move onto the next item. Oh, and if you’re curious . . . I seriously go item by item when I shop. Since I know that I mostly like linen, it’s pretty easy to scan for this fabric among all the other things in the store.

And any seasoned second-hand shopper will tell you to inspect your items well before purchasing. You will find stains, holes, tears, and other reasons why these things may have ended up in the shop. If it’s something you can fix, great. If not, put it back.

Or  . . .

Ask for deals


If I find anything wrong that I think I can fix, I ask for a discount. Some stores offer while others aren’t as willing. Don’t go overboard. But, for example, I found a linen dress once that looked like it had simply fallen on the ground and got some dirt/dust on it that would clearly come out in the wash. Still, I said “gee, I love this . . . but I sure hope this stain comes out . . . would you take off anything?” And they took off 20 percent with no issues.

If something has an issue I’m not as confident about resolving and they won’t take anything off, I walk away. Sometimes after saying never mind, they’ll take off more and other times, not. It’s all part of the game.

Remember -- you can (often) return


At the same time, check out your store’s return policies. If you do bring something home and don’t like it or find it has issues, you’ll want to return if you can. Some shops only offer in-store credit while others will give you your cash back. Some store do not offer any type of return policy. This is, again, where checking items carefully comes in to play. I’ve been burned a few times. I have mended a few things . . . but others were beyond help or my abilities.

Consider modification


There have been times I’ve found dresses or pants and I love the cut + fabric, etc. But not the color. You can actually change that, you know. RIT dye is extremely useful in these cases + easy to use. Jessica recently darkened the color of a cool pair of leather boots she found. And there’s a blogger called ReFashionista who buys second-hand clothing that some find hideous and transforms it into hip, ultra-wearable pieces through her sewing skills.

Look beyond what’s in front of you to see what it could be. But don’t go too crazy or elaborate. I find that quick fixes or changes work best for my skill set.


Don’t forget shoes


I shunned the shoe section at thrift shops for years because the idea of wearing other people’s shoes creeped me out. Here’s the thing . . . some of the shoes you will find are either like-new or entirely new. It always astounds me. For example, I found a like-new pair of FRYE boots (similar to these that go for HUNDREDS!) this weekend. I also found a brand new pair of Eileen Fisher espadrilles (just like these that are currently in stores for $135+).

Don’t forget to check the shoes. Period.

Mind the calendar


Most thrift shops in my area have sales throughout the year. This weekend the thrifty shopper up the road had 50 percent off everything for just one day. I think they do it twice a year. Ask your associates if there are any planned sales. Many stores also have tag sales where, say, purple tags are 30 percent off or blue are 50 percent off. This usually means that whatever the item is has been sitting on the shelves longer than other items.

Again: Inspect your loot carefully for damage . . . but otherwise celebrate finding a super deal!

Go alone, if you can


I try to shop thrift on my own. I find when I bring the kids that they get terribly bored. I am also much (MUCH!) faster without them. So, I try to join my thrifting trips with my grocery shopping, which I also try to do alone as much as possible. If I’m scanning and moving on, I find I can go through a whole store in like 15-20 minutes. That means I could hit up three in the span of an hour.

For me, this is great entertainment and exhilarating deal-finding, but I totally understand if this isn’t your idea of fun that you might want to spend your solo time doing other things . . . NOT. :)

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What are some of your tips for thrift shopping? I’d love to hear them!

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5 FLAX Outfits // Summer Edition

>> Thursday, August 3, 2017

This week is speeding by! I didn’t want another one to pass before I shared my flax outfits with you. This isn’t my entire wardrobe I was promising, but I figure I’ll get something up instead of nothing. Sound like a deal? Deal! If you haven’t read my last post, go check out why I mostly buy second-hand clothing and why I love FLAX.

So, I feel like I had these preconceived notions of the kind of woman who typically wears FLAX. To me, it always looked like something a funky 50-year-old woman would wear for business casual. Too boxy upon too boxy with like a jacket as the cherry on top or something. I try my best not to dress like that. But sometimes I like to rock a head-to-toe linen look, and I think it comes off alright.

Here are two examples:


Thing is, though, I often shy from FLAX on FLAX. Well, maybe that’s not true. It’s just that I love pairing linen with jeans. My beloved jeans! Here’s one of my all-time favorite outfits. I go to it for anything from a trip to the farmers market to an evening out. Yes. My evenings out are extremely casual, and I like them that way.


To me, it looks a bit artsy. Almost like I’m wearing some apron-smock thing. Below is a look I rock mostly at home. Leggings with an oversized button-down for butt cover. This is a great outfit for looking semi-put together . . . but also not caring if I get food all over myself. At the same time, I wouldn’t hesitate going to Target in this getup.


This last outfit is something I actually haven’t worn much. I had wanted to show you another outfit, but the shirt is in the wash (baby food and yogurt stains!). Anyway, I hadn’t had FLAX pants in my collection until recently. I have a few pairs of shorts. The pants feel difficult to style for some reason, but I actually wore mostly linen pants in college. A comfy t-shirt is always a win. I can’t resist tying the shirt. That’s something I haven’t been able to shake since my LuLaRoe obsession.


So, that’s how I style my FLAX for summer. I’ll try to get up a post that shows you each piece in my 30-item closet. Most of it is linen. I have a few t-shirts and several pairs of jeans. Why thirty? No reason, really. I don’t set a limit on myself, but I like to keep it relatively small. I wouldn’t call it a capsule. It’s just easy to manage when there are fewer items. Less laundry, and the like.

What look do you think is best? My favorite is still number 3!

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FLAX + Why I Mostly Shop Second-Hand Clothing

>> Tuesday, August 1, 2017




Why I mostly buy second hand


I could go on for days about the reasons I like to shop at thrift stores and other reuse shops for my clothing. Some reasons are obvious. Others maybe no so much. I had many other posts on this topic on my other blog Writing Chapter Three, so maybe I’ll try to re-post them here someday soon.

Here are my top three reasons of the moment.

I buy second hand because . . .

  • The clothing is far cheaper than the stuff you’ll find in retail stores. I’d say I generally spend between $4 and $20 on each piece of clothing that comes into my closet. The average price is around $10 to $15. But even that sounds a bit high. It just depends on the store and the item I’m purchasing.
  • The clothing is better quality than I could otherwise afford. If I were to go to a FLAX store (my favorite brand) and buy a new piece, it would run me between $40 and $100 per item. I don’t have that kind of money hanging around. But, I can find something old + in great condition (because quality!) and give it new life for a fraction of the price.
  • I feel shopping this way is more ethical. I am in no way getting on a high horse here (uh, LuLaRoe?). But I am learning and trying to do better with my buying practices. I am trying better to avoid fast fashion and its many issues, save clothing from landfills, reuse perfectly good items, etc.

Where do I buy?


Here are the places I regularly shop. By regular, I mean that I visit all my local shops about once a month in a rotation. I try to hit the days when they’re having 50 percent off sales or similar promotions.

The stores include:

  • Good Will, two locations in my area
  • Thrifty Shopper, two locations in my area
  • Salvation Army, two locations in my area
  • Trader K (if you’re local, it’s in Ithaca)
  • Misc. other local thrift

I also shop second hand online:
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I have a modest monthly clothing allowance set up for each family member in the budget. While I don’t always NEED new clothes, sometimes I see a piece I really like, and it’s worth the $5 to add it and maybe purge something else from my wardrobe.

The same goes for the girls. I do a mix of new and previously loved clothing for them. I find that onesies, for example, are often better bought new. They may even be cheaper on clearance. The stuff I can find on thrift for kids is usually in awesome condition. But the girls’ clothing is a topic for another day.


What do I buy?


These days, I primarily seek out FLAX clothing for myself. If you’re unfamiliar, FLAX is a line of generously cut linen duds that started in 1995 with Jeanne Engelhart in Ithaca, NY. I don’t know the whole history, but I started shopping FLAX in 1999 when I attended a barn sale with my boyfriend’s mother when I was in high school. It was my introduction to natural fibers in clothing, and I saw this way of dressing as funky and sort of strange . . . but it did inform many of my college wardrobe choices.

Fast forward many years and many personal styles, I returned to flax after I found a piece randomly at our local Thrifty Shopper. It was a dress for $8, and I wear it all the time. After that, I started slowly chipping away at buying pieces I could find for under $15. If you hunt FLAX like I do, you know this is no easy feat. Especially now with the popularity of linen clothing, people are definitely marking things up, which I get. But they are marking them up to a grossly high premium.

For example, there’s a FLAX jumper I love on Ebay right now, and the semi-local store owner has several similar pieces. She’s charging $225 . . . for each . . . and I believe she’s earning that amount, too. More power to her, but boo to those of us frugal FLAX lovers. I’m pretty sure we shop at some of the same thrift shops, and I know the markup is ridiculous. But, I digress.

I have been limiting myself to primarily buying these linen items for a few reasons. First, many of them are from the 1990s and look fantastic despite their age. This means they will last. Second, flax is a sustainable, natural fiber. It gets better with each wash, soft and breathable. Third, I like how the clothing is cut. It’s modest, but cute. It’s flowing and flattering. It also seems both timeless and age-less. I promise I’ll dedicate a post very soon to how I style my flax clothing.

My closet


So, I am sure you want to see what pieces I own. Right now I have a total of 30 items in my closet that make up my main wardrobe. It’s mostly flax and denim pieces. This 30-count does not include pajamas, underwear, socks, and activewear. I have decided I model some of my favorite outfits for you guys later this week.

Here’s a quick snapshot if you’re curious.


In my next post, I’ll give you a run down of each item in my closet (a few are missing here -- jeans, mostly). I’ll also show you my five favorite pieces that get the most wear. And I’ll give you some tips to hunt FLAX on your own. I actually get a lot of questions about this clothing on my Instagram, so this post isn’t totally random. I hope it helps!



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Thriftacular Style

>> Monday, February 22, 2010


You may remember a little ditty about a no-new clothing challenge inspired by Katie over at Making this Home. Status report: Well, I've failed miserably. However, in my defense, I think I started the whole thing at a horrible time of year: Black Friday . . . which leads into X-mas. Yes. I've failed and purchased several items of clothing since then. But if we can't move past and learn from our mistakes, we aren't human. I'd like to start the challenge up again.

What prompted me to revisit this idea and admit to you my un-successfulness? Weekend cleaning -- which dominated most of Sunday, taking away from the cooking/baking/creating time I usually have to fuel this blog. Clothes are EVERYWHERE in this house. And so many that I know I never have and never will wear. But far too often I make this realization and then make an organized bag for the Salvation Army . . . literally throwing away money I've spent. It's more than disconcerting.

(However, not all trips to the Salvo need to be bad. It's a great way to organize, and if you're looking for tips on how exactly to do just that, check out Donate Your Stuff and Save Some Space.)

Here's an outfit almost entirely thrifted and mostly from the "old stuff" in my closet.


Jacket: Thrifted back in 2004
Dress: Thrifted back in 2005
T-shirt: Thrifted back in 2005
Sweater and belt: Target, Clearance rack
Scarf: TJ Max
Tights: Anne Klein
Boots: Dr. Scholl's


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A Good Time . . . Cost Only Dimes!

>> Friday, January 29, 2010


It's Friday . . . so, recreation is on my mind. But as I've mentioned again, and again, and again, we're on a tight budget. The FREEKEND idea kind of died (sorry to those of you who were excited about it!) because I didn't get any submissions to showcase. But that doesn't mean I can't share some of our tips for low-cost fun!

When we're not playing Wii, watching movies, renovating our entryway closet, or cooking on weekends . . . we're most likely playing board (and card, etc.) games! Playing them just-the-two-of-us. Playing them with our friends. Playing them alone sometimes?

Maybe. But there's no shame in that.



SOME OF OUR FAVORITES:
  • Old School Battleship (we make our own bomb noises)
  • Scrabble (we're both vocab geeks)
  • Apples to Apples (need we say more?)
  • Taboo (crazy times with this one)
  • Boggle (another word-nerd favorite)
  • Jenga (Stephen is much better than I am)
  • Cranium (My favorite part is the clay!)
Basically all the oldies that we played as kids. By far our favorite is Apples to Apples. And we're just sad it's not a 2-player game, or else we'd probably be playing it almost every night. A couple years back, we used to have an unplugged game night with our best friends. We'd take turns hosting and providing the game of the night . . . making tons of tasty foods (and each bringing a dish to pass). Ah, those were the good days. And we're now trying to start that trend again . . .



We get most of our games at yard sales and thrift stores. Seriously, people. If you're already there to check out their selection of housewares, stop by the section with all the games. I was skeptical at first because I thought if people were getting rid of games, it likely meant there were pieces or cards missing (or weird stains, etc.).

But 9 out of 10 times, this isn't the case!

In all our trolling around, we've come across some strange ones, too! Take Pit, for example. The "exciting and fast-paced game of trading commodities" first made popular, I believe, in the early 1900s. We picked up a mint pack of cards at our Salvation Army . . . and even if the game ISN'T that fun (we still don't truly understand the rules), we had a hell of a time chatting about how weird it is . . .



We have procured most of our game collection for under $20 -- total. Now, we have an entire storage bench full of our finds, stowed neatly away in our dining room (in close proximity to the dining table -- where all the serious gaming goes down). In fact, I don't think there's any space left in there, so we may need to either stop buying games or find a bigger storage bench.




So, if you're stuck for ideas. Bored with your usual routine. Whatever. Go scope out the game section at your local thrift store. You'll have the games for years to come, you'll only spend a couple bucks . . . and, like with our beloved Pit, you may find some rare, hilarious gems that'll give you a good laugh.

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