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My Large Thrifting Haul + Cost

>> Wednesday, January 10, 2018

So, changing gears from clearing all clutter out of my house . . . I had a very productive thrifting trip last weekend. I only visited two stores for these items. The first is the second-hand shop that's a mile from my house. The second is the children's thrift shop across town.

Total amount spent: $86, which -- admittedly -- sounds like a lot. But stay with me!

The mission: Ada's stretching to the max in her size 6 clothing lately, so I am slowly collecting sizes 7/8. Eloise needed some cold weather stuff and a few basics, since Ada and Eloise were born in different seasons.

Anyway, here's what I bought for each family member.

For Ada:



  • Matilda Jane Top NWOT ($6)
  • Lands End Rocket Sweatshirt ($4)
  • Johnnie b Boden boatneck ($1)
  • Garnet Hill Kids fleece ($4)
  • Johnnie b Boden dress ($4)
  • Children's Place jeans ($3)
  • Dr. Martens boots ($10)
  • Minnetonka moccasins ($5)
  • Hanna Andersson dress NWOT -- not pictured ($3)
TOTAL: $40


For Eloise:



  • Hanna Andersson fleece ($4)
  • Hanna Andersson pants ($1)
  • Okie Dokie shirt ($2)
  • Unlabeled wool pants ($2)
  • Wool polka-dot jacket NWT ($4)
  • Saint James boatneck ($2)
TOTAL: $15


Also for Eloise:



  • Patagonia lightweight snowsuit/bunting ($14 -- half off, so $7)
  • Stonz booties NWT ($14 -- half off, so $7)
TOTAL: $14 (and these will fit next year, too -- and the snowsuit might stretch to age 3)


For Stephen:




L.L. Bean fleece shirt NWOT ($5)

TOTAL: $5


For Ashley:



  • Patagonia zip layer ($6)
  • Nike Dri-Fit Fleece ($6)
TOTAL: $12


More thrifting fun:

Smart + Thrifty Tips for Buying Second-Hand Clothing
FLAX + Why I Mostly Buy Second-Hand Clothing
Introvert’s Guide to Holding a Yard Sale
Frugal Accomplishments
5 FLAX Outfits // Summer Edition
All my style-related posts

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Smart + Thrifty Tips for Buying Second-Hand Clothing

>> Monday, August 14, 2017

So many of you have messaged me privately about my second-hand shopping escapades. It’s really one of my biggest hobbies. There’s definitely a method to my madness. One of my favorite bloggers -- Jessica over at What I Wore -- recently shared her own tips for shopping thrift, garage sales, etc. You should definitely check those out.

Here’s how I approach things, at least when it comes to clothing. I have a host of other tips for household and other items.


Make the rounds


A lot of people tell me they aren’t able to find good stuff at their local shops. And for some of you, that may be an ongoing issue, I understand. But for others -- don’t give up with just one visit! Consider that these places get new stock from time to time. How often will certainly depend on the shop, so it’s a good idea to ask the sales associates how often new stuff comes in.

I find that if I try to hit up all my local places in a rotation about every two weeks, I am able to see a wealth of goodies. Of course, I still see that crazy cat embroidered vest at Good Will even a month down the line, but many other awesome things have filtered into the aisles as well.

I also have discovered that where you go matters. We live in a large-ish area with many different pockets of age brackets, income levels, etc. While I have found good things at most stores . . . I tend to more heavily hit certain areas where I find the demographic more closely matches my own. Well, and also where middle-aged women who like FLAX clothing live.

Know your style


I know what I’m looking for. Usually natural fibers. Linen, mostly. FLAX the brand specifically (here are my 5 favorite FLAX outfits for summer). If you have a tried-and-true brand or fabric or cut or item you like, look for it specifically and try to forget the rest. In my own experience, I have picked up things that I would have never purchased simply because I thought it looked kinda sorta neat. Then? I never put it on because, well, it’s just not my style.

You may find it helpful to write down a list of things you like. Or things you need. But try to avoid getting random stuff that appeals to you based on price alone. I went through this period of time when I thought maybe I’d like to wear corduroy jumpers simply because I was finding a lot of them and they were cheap. Nope.

Oh, and while you’re at it, don’t hoard things just because they are what you’re “looking” for. Again, I LOVE FLAX . . . but I don’t need a lime green FLAX vest or something that doesn’t match my style.


Know your size


I really, really don’t recommend trying on thrift store clothing. Even while shopping at a “nice” store, I contracted scabies when I was in my early twenties. It’s helpful to know your size in different brands or simply by looking at the item. You may even want to bring a measuring tape with you to help. I tend to wear things big or in a freer size, so usually I’m pretty good if something is a tad too big on me.

Instead of trying on, I tie my bag tightly after leaving the store and immediately throw it in the wash when I get home. I dry in the dryer as well -- anything to help kill weird stuff that might be on there. I am usually just fine with sizing because I’m a ninja at this stuff. BUT I’m not immune to mistakes. So, that all said, if you do end up getting something home that just won’t work after washing, you may also try to re-sell it or donate it again if it only set you back a couple dollars.

Oh, and I would recommend checking all sizes. Some things are either in the wrong section (misplaced) or -- at least with vintage clothing -- sizes have changed over time. I wear anywhere between a 2 and 8 in different modern brands. With vintage, I can wear up to a 12!

Scan and keep moving


This goes with knowing what you want -- keep moving! If I stop too long to consider something, the chances are that I’m more convincing myself that it’s a good deal or whatever. If I see something that I immediately love, I grab it and move onto the next item. Oh, and if you’re curious . . . I seriously go item by item when I shop. Since I know that I mostly like linen, it’s pretty easy to scan for this fabric among all the other things in the store.

And any seasoned second-hand shopper will tell you to inspect your items well before purchasing. You will find stains, holes, tears, and other reasons why these things may have ended up in the shop. If it’s something you can fix, great. If not, put it back.

Or  . . .

Ask for deals


If I find anything wrong that I think I can fix, I ask for a discount. Some stores offer while others aren’t as willing. Don’t go overboard. But, for example, I found a linen dress once that looked like it had simply fallen on the ground and got some dirt/dust on it that would clearly come out in the wash. Still, I said “gee, I love this . . . but I sure hope this stain comes out . . . would you take off anything?” And they took off 20 percent with no issues.

If something has an issue I’m not as confident about resolving and they won’t take anything off, I walk away. Sometimes after saying never mind, they’ll take off more and other times, not. It’s all part of the game.

Remember -- you can (often) return


At the same time, check out your store’s return policies. If you do bring something home and don’t like it or find it has issues, you’ll want to return if you can. Some shops only offer in-store credit while others will give you your cash back. Some store do not offer any type of return policy. This is, again, where checking items carefully comes in to play. I’ve been burned a few times. I have mended a few things . . . but others were beyond help or my abilities.

Consider modification


There have been times I’ve found dresses or pants and I love the cut + fabric, etc. But not the color. You can actually change that, you know. RIT dye is extremely useful in these cases + easy to use. Jessica recently darkened the color of a cool pair of leather boots she found. And there’s a blogger called ReFashionista who buys second-hand clothing that some find hideous and transforms it into hip, ultra-wearable pieces through her sewing skills.

Look beyond what’s in front of you to see what it could be. But don’t go too crazy or elaborate. I find that quick fixes or changes work best for my skill set.


Don’t forget shoes


I shunned the shoe section at thrift shops for years because the idea of wearing other people’s shoes creeped me out. Here’s the thing . . . some of the shoes you will find are either like-new or entirely new. It always astounds me. For example, I found a like-new pair of FRYE boots (similar to these that go for HUNDREDS!) this weekend. I also found a brand new pair of Eileen Fisher espadrilles (just like these that are currently in stores for $135+).

Don’t forget to check the shoes. Period.

Mind the calendar


Most thrift shops in my area have sales throughout the year. This weekend the thrifty shopper up the road had 50 percent off everything for just one day. I think they do it twice a year. Ask your associates if there are any planned sales. Many stores also have tag sales where, say, purple tags are 30 percent off or blue are 50 percent off. This usually means that whatever the item is has been sitting on the shelves longer than other items.

Again: Inspect your loot carefully for damage . . . but otherwise celebrate finding a super deal!

Go alone, if you can


I try to shop thrift on my own. I find when I bring the kids that they get terribly bored. I am also much (MUCH!) faster without them. So, I try to join my thrifting trips with my grocery shopping, which I also try to do alone as much as possible. If I’m scanning and moving on, I find I can go through a whole store in like 15-20 minutes. That means I could hit up three in the span of an hour.

For me, this is great entertainment and exhilarating deal-finding, but I totally understand if this isn’t your idea of fun that you might want to spend your solo time doing other things . . . NOT. :)

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What are some of your tips for thrift shopping? I’d love to hear them!

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5 FLAX Outfits // Summer Edition

>> Thursday, August 3, 2017

This week is speeding by! I didn’t want another one to pass before I shared my flax outfits with you. This isn’t my entire wardrobe I was promising, but I figure I’ll get something up instead of nothing. Sound like a deal? Deal! If you haven’t read my last post, go check out why I mostly buy second-hand clothing and why I love FLAX.

So, I feel like I had these preconceived notions of the kind of woman who typically wears FLAX. To me, it always looked like something a funky 50-year-old woman would wear for business casual. Too boxy upon too boxy with like a jacket as the cherry on top or something. I try my best not to dress like that. But sometimes I like to rock a head-to-toe linen look, and I think it comes off alright.

Here are two examples:


Thing is, though, I often shy from FLAX on FLAX. Well, maybe that’s not true. It’s just that I love pairing linen with jeans. My beloved jeans! Here’s one of my all-time favorite outfits. I go to it for anything from a trip to the farmers market to an evening out. Yes. My evenings out are extremely casual, and I like them that way.


To me, it looks a bit artsy. Almost like I’m wearing some apron-smock thing. Below is a look I rock mostly at home. Leggings with an oversized button-down for butt cover. This is a great outfit for looking semi-put together . . . but also not caring if I get food all over myself. At the same time, I wouldn’t hesitate going to Target in this getup.


This last outfit is something I actually haven’t worn much. I had wanted to show you another outfit, but the shirt is in the wash (baby food and yogurt stains!). Anyway, I hadn’t had FLAX pants in my collection until recently. I have a few pairs of shorts. The pants feel difficult to style for some reason, but I actually wore mostly linen pants in college. A comfy t-shirt is always a win. I can’t resist tying the shirt. That’s something I haven’t been able to shake since my LuLaRoe obsession.


So, that’s how I style my FLAX for summer. I’ll try to get up a post that shows you each piece in my 30-item closet. Most of it is linen. I have a few t-shirts and several pairs of jeans. Why thirty? No reason, really. I don’t set a limit on myself, but I like to keep it relatively small. I wouldn’t call it a capsule. It’s just easy to manage when there are fewer items. Less laundry, and the like.

What look do you think is best? My favorite is still number 3!

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FLAX + Why I Mostly Shop Second-Hand Clothing

>> Tuesday, August 1, 2017




Why I mostly buy second hand


I could go on for days about the reasons I like to shop at thrift stores and other reuse shops for my clothing. Some reasons are obvious. Others maybe no so much. I had many other posts on this topic on my other blog Writing Chapter Three, so maybe I’ll try to re-post them here someday soon.

Here are my top three reasons of the moment.

I buy second hand because . . .

  • The clothing is far cheaper than the stuff you’ll find in retail stores. I’d say I generally spend between $4 and $20 on each piece of clothing that comes into my closet. The average price is around $10 to $15. But even that sounds a bit high. It just depends on the store and the item I’m purchasing.
  • The clothing is better quality than I could otherwise afford. If I were to go to a FLAX store (my favorite brand) and buy a new piece, it would run me between $40 and $100 per item. I don’t have that kind of money hanging around. But, I can find something old + in great condition (because quality!) and give it new life for a fraction of the price.
  • I feel shopping this way is more ethical. I am in no way getting on a high horse here (uh, LuLaRoe?). But I am learning and trying to do better with my buying practices. I am trying better to avoid fast fashion and its many issues, save clothing from landfills, reuse perfectly good items, etc.

Where do I buy?


Here are the places I regularly shop. By regular, I mean that I visit all my local shops about once a month in a rotation. I try to hit the days when they’re having 50 percent off sales or similar promotions.

The stores include:

  • Good Will, two locations in my area
  • Thrifty Shopper, two locations in my area
  • Salvation Army, two locations in my area
  • Trader K (if you’re local, it’s in Ithaca)
  • Misc. other local thrift

I also shop second hand online:
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I have a modest monthly clothing allowance set up for each family member in the budget. While I don’t always NEED new clothes, sometimes I see a piece I really like, and it’s worth the $5 to add it and maybe purge something else from my wardrobe.

The same goes for the girls. I do a mix of new and previously loved clothing for them. I find that onesies, for example, are often better bought new. They may even be cheaper on clearance. The stuff I can find on thrift for kids is usually in awesome condition. But the girls’ clothing is a topic for another day.


What do I buy?


These days, I primarily seek out FLAX clothing for myself. If you’re unfamiliar, FLAX is a line of generously cut linen duds that started in 1995 with Jeanne Engelhart in Ithaca, NY. I don’t know the whole history, but I started shopping FLAX in 1999 when I attended a barn sale with my boyfriend’s mother when I was in high school. It was my introduction to natural fibers in clothing, and I saw this way of dressing as funky and sort of strange . . . but it did inform many of my college wardrobe choices.

Fast forward many years and many personal styles, I returned to flax after I found a piece randomly at our local Thrifty Shopper. It was a dress for $8, and I wear it all the time. After that, I started slowly chipping away at buying pieces I could find for under $15. If you hunt FLAX like I do, you know this is no easy feat. Especially now with the popularity of linen clothing, people are definitely marking things up, which I get. But they are marking them up to a grossly high premium.

For example, there’s a FLAX jumper I love on Ebay right now, and the semi-local store owner has several similar pieces. She’s charging $225 . . . for each . . . and I believe she’s earning that amount, too. More power to her, but boo to those of us frugal FLAX lovers. I’m pretty sure we shop at some of the same thrift shops, and I know the markup is ridiculous. But, I digress.

I have been limiting myself to primarily buying these linen items for a few reasons. First, many of them are from the 1990s and look fantastic despite their age. This means they will last. Second, flax is a sustainable, natural fiber. It gets better with each wash, soft and breathable. Third, I like how the clothing is cut. It’s modest, but cute. It’s flowing and flattering. It also seems both timeless and age-less. I promise I’ll dedicate a post very soon to how I style my flax clothing.

My closet


So, I am sure you want to see what pieces I own. Right now I have a total of 30 items in my closet that make up my main wardrobe. It’s mostly flax and denim pieces. This 30-count does not include pajamas, underwear, socks, and activewear. I have decided I model some of my favorite outfits for you guys later this week.

Here’s a quick snapshot if you’re curious.


In my next post, I’ll give you a run down of each item in my closet (a few are missing here -- jeans, mostly). I’ll also show you my five favorite pieces that get the most wear. And I’ll give you some tips to hunt FLAX on your own. I actually get a lot of questions about this clothing on my Instagram, so this post isn’t totally random. I hope it helps!



Related posts



Spring Weeding
Introvert’s Guide to Holding a Yard Sale
Let’s Talk LuLaRoe: The Good, Bad, and Ugly
How to Take the Stink Out of Your Workout Gear
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PinkBlush Maternity + $75 Giveaway

>> Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Did you guys see my 23 week update? I dressed up for my bump shot. With a little help, that is. PinkBlush Maternity -- a small family owned and operated company -- recently contacted me to see if I wanted to check out some of their cute maternity clothes for growing bumps. Ummmm. Yes, please. I need fashion help like crazy these days.

I haven't invested in much clothing this time around because I'm mostly home and don't fit in anything from Ada's pregnancy, so it was a treat thinking about how to look nice in my current body for a change. I wore this Navy Blue + Floral Chiffon maternity dress out to brunch and a movie with Stephen Sunday morning, and I felt like a real lady in it.

Photos!


I love the cut and print of this dress. Like I said, I feel really pretty in it -- even though my roots are looking wicked awful these days and my body is somewhat unrecognizable to me. The fabric is a great weight for transitioning from spring into summer. I chose a size medium, and I'd say that the sizing is right on with what I would expect. Just a bit roomy so I have space to fill up the belly until June.

So, if you're looking for some trendy maternity clothes, check out PinkBlush. They are running a 25 percent off sitewide sale right now using the code SPRINGISHERE. Not pregnant? They also offer a ton of cute and affordable clothing options for women, plus sizes, nursing women, babies, accessories, and more.

// GIVEAWAY


Now is your chance to browse PinkBlush for yourself! Leave a comment below with the words "I'm Blushing!" to be entered for a giveaway that will earn you a $75 gift card. Make sure you leave some way for me to contact you.

Winner will be chosen via random number generator next Tuesday, March 8th, and you'll receive your gift card within 24 hours via email.

Disclosure: I received a dress from PinkBlush Maternity for review purposes. My opinions are my own.

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Spring Weeding

>> Wednesday, April 29, 2015

These capsule wardrobe things are all the rage, aren’t they? I don’t consider myself terribly stylish. I try, and I’ve shared a few of my attempts at being fashionable in the past. My grandmother (mother’s mother) is the most stylish person in the entire family. There have been several occasions when we’ll show up at a gathering wearing the same item from the GAP or something. It’s crazy. And it usually looks better on her.

Anyway, clothing. I tried weeding through my wardrobe in the past, but then we moved to our new house and I got my very own closet. Not just a closet, like, a DOUBLE. It’s huge, and I felt like I needed to have all my stuff out to fill it up. Plus, it’s hard right now, guys. I’ve been shifting between several sizes in the last couple years. Even until yesterday, I had some maternity pieces in my wardrobe because it seems like the minute I got the positive sign, stuff didn’t feel comfortable. Then there was that row of my old, old favorite jeans that just taunted me. I could barely pull most of them the full way up.

Laundry is a whole other issue wrapped up in this mess. So, finally I got sick of mounds of clothing I needed to either wash or fold, and I said ENOUGH! To me, this whole capsule thing isn’t necessarily for style. Yes, it should make getting dressed in the morning slightly easier. Most of the clothes I kept (out of like 80 pieces total) were in the blue/grey/black/white range. I kept a few colorful pieces for when I’m feeling spirited. Otherwise, the rest went into storage (because I’ve already considerably pared down my clothing through donation and even ThredUp).


Here’s what I’m keeping:
  • 3 pairs of jeans
  • 1 pair of pants
  • 1 pair leggings
  • 2 skirts
  • 4 dresses
  • 7 sleeveless shirts
  • 7 short-sleeved shirts
  • 4 long-sleeved shirts
  • Jean shirt
  • 2 light sweaters

I haven’t ironed out the final details yet (see what I did there?), but I’d like to keep it all below 35 items. I also have 3 pairs of shoes/boots and 3 pairs of sandals. I’ll probably want to add shorts when the weather gets warmer. I’m not big on accessories, but I might find a few -- a belt, scarf, etc. We’ll see. But I’m hoping most to eliminate the mountains of laundry and to simplify my overall dressing routine. And getting all the too-small and maternity clothes out of the closet was just good for my soul.

I’ll be back sometime in the near-ish future to share a few outfits from my closet. I’ll also update you on if this method is working for me. My immediate feeling is it’s going to be awesome. Oh, and (totally disjointed in my thoughts today!) I also have exercise clothing and lounge-wear that don’t count. I cut all that stuff in half too. Feels good!

Do you do the whole capsule wardrobe thing? 

What’s your experience?

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Shabby Apple Giveaway

>> Thursday, March 17, 2011

Hey, everyone! It's a gorgeous day here in upstate NY -- I even think temps today might reach into the lower 60s. I love every minute of it! Still working away at our house. It's looking nice . . . but no nibbles or bites just yet. We're a bit discouraged, but hoping that the nicer weather brings some people by this weekend.

Here's what I'm wearing today. Not the best I've ever put together, but I've packed away so many clothes and have so much laundry to do. At least it's a skirt!


Now, if you like style, keep reading. Shabby Apple (a great site with lots of cute women's dresses) contacted us recently about partnering for a giveaway. Of course, we said YES! And if you don't win, you still get a discount.

That's right: You can enter to win this gorgeous dress, handpicked by us:


To see more photos, click here. And here's some more info from the site . . .

A true gem of a multi-tasker, the Azure Coast dress, with it's playful puff sleeves and no-nonsense shirt collar, is perfect for the office or a weekend getaway at the shore. This ocean-colored beauty sports faux-wrap styling—the skirt closes all the way—giving you the look of your favorite wrap dress without the anxiety of worrying whether or not you're unintentionally showing too much leg.

Wanna win? Here's the scoop:

THE PRIZE: One Azure Coast dress from Shabby Apple. Value: $82.00.
TO ENTER: Leave a comment with the words DRESS ME UP somewhere in the mix.
IN ADDITION: Tell us a little about your spring style essentials.
GIVEAWAY CLOSES: Friday, March 25th at 9:00PM EST
PRIZE SHIPS: USA only.
ALSO: To win, I need your email address -- so please provide it (or your blog link so I can find it -- just some way of contacting you) or, unfortunately, you cannot win.
PS: One entry per email address is allowed. The winner will be selected using Tara's Random Number Generator and announced Monday (3/28) morning.

But you're really ALL winners! All readers can enjoy 10% off at Shabby Apple. Just use the coupon code: neverhomemaker10off. And don't forget to "like" Shabby Apple on Facebook (you can fine 'em here) -- that way, you can enjoy special promotions and exclusive discounts on more women's dresses.

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Friday

>> Friday, March 4, 2011

We're going to tour our dream house again tomorrow afternoon. Sadly, we've heard that several other people are peeking through it today. In fact, just as I write this post they're probably poking through what we want to be our kitchen cupboards and master bedroom.

That's where the not-getting-too-excited thing is coming in to play. (Even though it's so, so hard!) We aren't 100% ready to list our house yet. We have a couple repairs before it's ready. Ugh. I wish we were just buying house. It's so much simpler!

So, fingers, toes, arms, legs, and anything-else-you-got crossed!

THE OUTFIT


Shirt: J. Crew (clearance)
Jeans: Citizens of Humanity (really, really old)
Scarf: Cynthia Rowley (via TJ Max)
Shoes: Payless


Do you dress down on Fridays? My workplace doesn't have a stated policy on the matter. So, I've taken it into my own hands. Just leave a comment or email us at neverhomemaker [at] gmail [dot] com.

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Weekend Things

>> Monday, February 28, 2011

Thanks again to everyone who participated in the first monthly blogger "open mic" -- it was a lot of fun! If you haven't yet checked out the performances/etc., you can do so on this page. Your comments were much appreciated. I'm super critical of myself -- especially of my voice, for some odd reason -- so to know it wasn't absolutely heinous . . . well . . . is nice.

Friday afternoon, Stephen and I headed out to the country with my mom and dad to look at a house. We're not totally sure that we're moving (we'd have to sell our house to make it work -- yikes!), but we definitely fell in love with what we saw. Including the surrounding area.

Ooooooooh . . .


Ahhhhhhhhh . . .


Though we're trying to keep our cool about the whole thing, Stephen did say when we left the place: "I've never loved ANYTHING so much in my life." Excluding me, of course. Please keep your fingers crossed for us!

FRIDAY STYLE


Dress and shoes: Target
Jeans: Gap
Belt: Kohl's
Scarf: Borrowed from Stephen


So, that concludes my month with the 30 for 30. It was incredibly difficult for me, so I'll stick with my full wardrobe from now on. What it did force me to do, however, is think of my clothes in new and interesting ways. And get better at taking style photos of myself.

Too much better, if you ask me. Just look at that attitude!

Stay tuned for March detox information -- including two tasty recipes. I started today . . . and so far, so good! While you're at it, what did you do this weekend?

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Thursday Style

>> Thursday, February 24, 2011

I enjoy my outfit today. It's much girlier than I usually dress, but it still feels like me. I can't help thinking about how I used to wear my Under Armor running tights as leggings in college. It wasn't for style as much as it was for comfort. Ithaca is COLD.

Now, there are so many different textures/colors. You younger ladies are lucky!


Dress: Old Navy (on sale! one of my last purchases before the no-new clothing challenge)
Cardigan and necklace: J. Crew (on sale!)
Leggings: The Gap (again -- on sale!)
Belt: Kohl's
Shoes: Target

That's all from me today. Tomorrow I'm posting my Blogtastic "Open Mic" entry. And good news! You all still have time to participate. Just check out Steff's great example -- though you don't need to sing. I'm recording tonight . . . and I'll be posting a list where you can add your link to the fun tomorrow.

<3

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To Cook or Not To Cook. The From-Scratch Debate

>> Friday, January 28, 2011

Lacy asks: You bake and cook so much stuff all the time, and it all looks good (and healthy to boot)! Do you make every meal you eat from scratch? I want to know what you eat in a typical day/week (and if you could send some motivation to cook over my way - haha!).


When we received Lacy's email, I read it aloud to Stephen and almost fell over laughing. Why exactly? I mean, it's a valid question! You see, the circumstances were just too much to take. At the time, I was elbow deep in a plastic container of Chinese takeout (bean curd with garlic sauce, with a side of MSG probably -- thanks for asking). I was supplementing it with an ice-cold beer. And for dessert, I was planning on eating a peanut butter cup.

It was just one of those nights. So -- in short, Lacy -- no, I do not toil over every meal.

It's not all green banana scramble and cacao energy chunks here at our casa. We do not (repeat: do not) 100% abide by a whole foods, made-from-scratch, granola-or-bust diet. We don't mill all our own flours. We don't make Stephen's seitan every time we want wheat meat. We don't even bake cookies every time we need a chocolate fix. It just isn't practical for our busy lifestyle. So, we do what we can when we can (Stephen eats probably far better than I do, truth be told).


We like to show you all the highlights and most memorable moments on the blog, probably making us look like we feast on only the most good-for-you stuff the world has to offer. All the time. No matter what. Um. Not true. So very NOT true!!!

That doesn't mean we don't try to eat well as often as possible. I've already written all about my stance on junk foods and how I don't fret about 'em. That being said, we try our best to choose foods that are healthy. I definitely make room for dessert every single day (and usually more than one). But if we're talking about general intake. What we usually eat . . . it's pretty boring, which is why we don't take the time to write about it. That's right: Eating well doesn't have to mean hours in the kitchen following tricky, photo-worthy recipes.

If it did, our kitchen would always look like this:


O.M.G. No thank you, because we STILL haven't purchased our dishwasher.

For this post, I'll focus on my own habits (because Lacy asks what we eat in a typical day). Stephen can fill his in another time. For me, it goes a little something like this . . . and I'll give the three MVMs (most valuable meals) for each, well, meal.

Breakfast:
  • Oatmeal with peanut butter and banana
  • Smoothies
  • Cereal (current favorite: Autumn Wheat)
Lunch:
  • Spinach salad with apples, walnuts, and kidney beans
  • Peanut butter and jelly sandwich on whole wheat
  • Leftovers from dinner the night before
Dinner:
For snacks, I eat Greek yogurt (current favorite: Chobani Black Cherry). Graham crackers. Carrot sticks. Anything I can toss into a bag on the go, really. You can take a peek inside our fridge, if you like. Notice how there isn't anything that's terribly time-consuming on this list. I rarely break out new recipes during the week unless I know they'll be quick. That's what the weekend is for -- learning and practicing. Maybe even preparing ahead of time.


Working full time and having a full life outside of work requires planning. (We are called never homemaker for a reason, because it really does seem sometimes like we're never home!) It also demands tried-and-true recipes that can be made in minutes. Foods that are sustaining enough to give energy to get through all those crazy moments. Finding the right balance is totally up to you and your circumstances.

What do I recommend if you are having trouble preparing more than microwave meals (though, you can up the nutritional value on those, too)? Well, I challenge you to carve out an hour on Sunday afternoon and make something new and different that you can save for the week. Like how we make our Pumpkin Chili. I personally love to cook and spend time in the kitchen, so this time for me is mind-clearing and fantastic. If you don't love it so much, play some music or have a movie playing in the background.

It's just like exercise, really. You just need to find what makes it work for you.


SOME TIPS:
  • Start small, but yield big. If you take the time to make a full crock pot full of something, you'll either have lunches for two most of the week. Or dinner for a couple nights. It's fantastic. More bang for your time-buck. (Uh. That doesn't work, but you know what I mean!)
  • Create a list of go-to meals. Those ones I listed above are totally the ones we go after on nights when we feel there's just no time. Or crazy mornings. I mean, pouring a bowl of cereal takes two seconds. (And yes -- this includes a list of healthy-ish takeout places for those especially insane days.)
  • Create a list of go-to ingredients. Maybe you're comfortable cooking with eggs, for example, and you know you can whip up something healthy and fast with them (like a protein-packed omelet). Maybe you dig sesame oil and soy sauce (like us) and know if you steam some broccoli and add the sauce to it, you'll get your fill. Whatever it is, getting to know ingredients that are easy to work with or that you and your family enjoy is super helpful.
  • Find the fun in it. I find that a lot of people associate cooking with work. And we don't want to do work when we're returning or going to work, right? Try to find something about being in the kitchen that brings you joy. It will make your stomach AND your mind happy.
  • When all else fails: Eat Simply. Carrot sticks require basically no time to prepare. Apples are a healthy snack on the go. Keep peanut butter and a loaf of whole grain bread at your desk for in-a-pinch lunches. Do what you can when you can. And ENJOY the food you do eat.

FRIDAY STYLE

More dark, colorless clothing items today. (But at least I have one color on!) I must have enjoyed wearing my shawl yesterday -- I broke out the other one I have (and haven't worn in months).


Dress and necklaces: Target
Leggings: Gap
Vest: TJ Max
Belt: Kohl's
Boots: Gabriella Rocha (via Zappos)


Is from-scratch at all times best? I'm taking a wild guess, but I'm thinking a lot of you who read our blog love to cook. But I'm also thinking some of you find it exhausting/annoying/etc. or feel it's not your favorite activity of all time. Love it or hate it, we want to know!

Just leave a comment or email us at neverhomemaker [at] gmail [dot] com.


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Green Eggs, er, Banana Scramble . . .

>> Thursday, January 27, 2011

It's been a while since we posted a banana scramble recipe. And it's also been a while, as some of you have pointed out, since we've posted a vegan recipe. It's not that we've forgotten about that part of the site. Far from it. We've just been eating a TON of plain fruits and veggies, and when we've made something recipe-worthy, it's had eggs, cheese, or yogurt in it.

It happens. But all you vegans (and vegan-lovers) out there should appreciate this breakfast.


SAVORY BANANA SCRAMBLE -- OPEN-FACED

What you'll need . . .
  • 1 large banana, mashed
  • 1 tablespoon cornmeal
  • 1/2 teaspoon smoked paprika
  • 1/2 (or so) scoop Midori Greens (or other greens supplement)
  • Black pepper, to taste
  • Chopped green pepper
  • Hot sauce
  • Whole wheat English muffin, toasted

Method . . .
  1. Mash your banana well -- until egg-y. Then mix in the cornmeal, paprika, Greens, and black pepper. Set aside.
  2. Spritz a bit of canola or olive oil into a frying pan over medium-high heat and toss in your green pepper. Cook for a few minutes -- until softened and lightly browned. Then toss these into the banana mixture.
  3. Lower the heat a bit and spritz in a bit more oil. Pour in the banana mixture and cook -- lightly mixing with a pancake flipper (the technical name isn't with me right now). Toss around until lightly browned.
  4. Lay out your English muffin on a plate and divide your banana mixture into two sections. Top each muffin with half the mixture. Top with hot sauce.
  5. Enjoy.

If you don't have a greens supplement, I imagine if you pulsed the banana in a food processor with some spinach or kale, that'd do the trick as well. It's sort of like making a green smoothie.

BLOGTASTIC "OPEN MIC"

We're SUPER DUPER excited at all the interest in the Blogtastic "Open Mic" that's we're hosing on February 25th. For more information, see our previous post with all the details.

And if you'd like to sign up officially (don't be scared -- we're all in this together!), rather than emailing us -- please add your name and blog name to this list (feed readers may need to hop on to neverhomemaker.com). We're thinking we'll post a similar list the day of so you may link to your specific post.



THURSDAY STYLE

I have a feeling opinions will be split on this one. I tried pairing my loose-fitting top with a thicker belt than usual. I also tried not wearing jeans to work. I like it -- but there's probably something wrong with wearing a brown belt and black shoes.

I don't really have brown shoes (well, I have boots), and I'm not planning on buying any anytime soon.


Shirt: J. Crew (clearance)
Sweater vest and shoes: Target
Belt: Kohl's
Cords: Gap


My knitting project is coming right along. It's going to be at least double what you see in this photo. Another eternity scarf. Just really exaggerated for extra warmth.

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Weekend Happenings, Part 1: New Wardrobe

>> Monday, January 24, 2011

(No! I didn't get all new clothes. I'm still really excited to buy nothing new in 2011. We're talking wardrobe -- furniture-style!)

A lot of you probably don't remember how our "master" bedroom looked a couple years ago. It's one of those rooms in our home that's always in flux. We borrow from it from time to time (like when we stole our nightstands for end tables in our recently changed living room/dining room setup).

Actually, the entire upstairs of our house isn't exactly showroom-ready because we're always picking at it.


Oh, well! Here's how the wall and closet area looked way back when. (I don't know what we were thinking with those purple curtains. Maybe my inner-child picked those out.)

No. We didn't overhaul the whole thing this weekend. I want to -- and soon. Though, I'm still not sure about colors. Also -- and here's a fun piece of information -- we have never, ever had a real bed. We just have our mattress and box spring on the floor. It appears to be a platform bed. But . . . no. That's on the list before anything else.

What DID we change? The storage situation! Our closets are wicked small. So, my clothes have always been in the "master" bedroom closet. Stephen's have always been in the guest bedroom. A guest bedroom which is now a gym. We decided this weekend to relocate all our active wear (and there's a lot of it!) to this new gym.


The bedroom now happily houses both our wardrobes. And though this new setup may not be pretty -- it works.


We've had the dresser for a while. It's full of my stuff. But we bought a cheap-o wardrobe from Home Depot (only $95!) and assembled it Saturday afternoon. It wasn't the easiest thing to deal with . . . but -- ultimately -- we're happy with it.

I tend to let my laundry get out of control and pile on the floor. Now, picking out my clothing in the morning is WAY easier. (Sorry for the blurry-ness.)


I agree with a lot of you who said the whole boots/jeans combo works on me (I'm so humble, right?). So, I did it again. This time with a turtleneck sweater from J. Crew. Eternity scarf from TJ Max. And glasses. I am still having trouble popping my contacts in. Ick.

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Blogtastic "Open Mic" and Friday Style

>> Friday, January 21, 2011

One of my goals this year is to be more creative. To develop my inner-artist -- which, for me, is mostly through music. I'm auditioning for our campus's community chorus next week. So, that's a start -- and I'm super excited about it. I've also been playing guitar/singing for at least 15 minutes per day.

I'm not great, but I'm slowly re-gaining my range. Re-learning chords. Re-discovering my voice. My brother is even going to teach me some fingerpicking (I never really learned). Which leads me to something scary: I really want to do an open mic night . . . like: A LOT. I've wanted to do one pretty much since . . . forever.

BUT I'm absolutely terrified to sing alone in public.


It's not that I can't do it (I was in musicals, had solos in chorus concerts, and performed in a variety of other events throughout the years, including some karaoke hits). It's just extremely, extremely difficult for me.

Lights shining in my eyes.
Mic in front of me.
Crowd hushed.
FROZEN. Forgetting words and chords.
Suck-y singing. Ahh!

SOLUTION: The Blogtastic "Open Mic" event!

S.e.r.i.o.u.s.l.y. I haven't hammered out all the details yet, but I'm completely dedicated to making this happen. Many of you expressed your own desires to grow your creative sides this year. And here's your chance to showcase your progress!
  • Anyone can participate. Singers. Instrument players. Poets. Fiction and other writers. Painters. Photographers. Crafters. Style gurus. If it's creative and can be shown online -- you're in.
  • It's a Date: Friday, February 25th. This give y'all an entire month to create your piece and figure out a way to share. (Video is best -- even if you're just holding up your painting, for example, and briefly explaining it -- because we're at our most vulnerable . . . In other words: I challenge you to go outside your comfort zone. However, video isn't required to participate. Photos will do the trick, too.).
  • What I need from you is a promise that you'll participate. A virtual pinky swear. A promise that you'll post your submission on Thursday, February 24th by midnight. That way, everyone can have the weekend to check out all the "performances" -- how fun!
  • I'll also need your first name, blog name, and link to your blog -- in advance (you can just email us), please -- so I may create a list of stops on the Open Mic circuit. As well, it'd be nice if you could include the title or type of "performance" you are going to give.
  • First round of folks will need to let us know by February 15th if they plan to participate. If all goes well, we'll host another event in March!
  • Am I forgetting anything? Probably. If you have questions -- just email us at neverhomemaker [at] gmail [dot] com.
I guess at this point I'm looking to see if there's any interest in this type of thing. (Comment if you are!) If no one else wants to -- I may just post a video of myself singing and playing guitar. (Yikes! You've been warned.) Mostly for me, I guess. I can already hear you all laughing and turning down your speaker volume. Hah!

FRIDAY STYLE


Less than a week after I challenge myself to dress up more -- to stop wearing my active wear to work -- I'm sporting Luon again. But I figure it's Friday. The day after a minor snow storm. I've been prettied up all week.

Go easy on me!



Hoodie: Lululemon -- I know. I know!
Shirt (underneath) and jeans: Gap
Boots: Keen

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