Showing posts with label recap. Show all posts
Showing posts with label recap. Show all posts

Turkey Trotting

>> Friday, November 28, 2014

Happy Friday, friends. If you follow me on Instagram, I’m sure you saw my flurry of activity in the last few days. I am all or nothing with that thing -- yikes. Anyway, we ended up getting nearly a foot of snow on Wednesday, so my plans to run the Turkey Trot 5-miler seemed dashed when I woke up to this in my backyard.

Gorgeous, but slick!


The last race I ran was back in early August. Since then (and a while before), we’ve been TTC and I haven’t been running seriously or fast or long or anything. Actually, I’m quite frustrated with running at the moment because I can’t figure out if I can just keep training like normal or if I’ll need to lay low until pregnancy happens. It all seems to be different depending on the person, and so far it doesn’t seem like running is helping or hindering either way. In other words, I’m in exercise purgatory.

Back to the race. I had to shovel myself out of the garage and drive on some slippery highways to get to the park to register. I wasn’t terribly nervous because the last time I ran fast was so long ago -- I knew it wouldn’t exactly be a fast day, especially combined with the weather.

The plan? Have fun and take in the Rave Run scenery!


To my surprise, a lot of trotters showed up. I got there early for registration and then had to wait in the cold for quite some time before the gun went off. I ran a warmup mile just to stay warm. Then I settled myself in the middle of the pack to start.

I’ve been running lately with the Nike app because it’s fun to hear cheers as you plod along, and this race was no exception. I got 8 different cheers along the way. I was also surprised to hear that I was averaging 7:35/ mile the entire way despite a clogged first quarter mile where I basically had to walk to get through all the people and the slush. Yeah, the slush and freezing puddles. My feet were soaked and freezing by the end, but I didn’t fall once!

My lack of training/stamina caught up with me a bit in the final mile, but I crossed the finish in 38:28 -- 7:40/mile. It’s actually a PR by a few seconds since my last 5-mile race back in 2006.


So, I’ll take it, and I’m extremely pleased with anything below 8:30, which is the fastest pace I’ve been running most days in the last several months. My body is totally unhappy with me today, though. Ouch. Still, I love racing on holidays! When I got home, Ada and Stephen had built a snowman and then we watched the Macy’s parade. And ate and ate and ate. But that’s a story for another day.

Did anyone else run a Thanksgiving race? Hope you’re enjoying your holiday!

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Weekend Things

>> Friday, May 16, 2014

So many links to share! I've decided to merge the Weekend Things and Weekly Recap into one post. Why not? I've really been feeling the quality versus quantity thing with regard to posts lately. Granted, we've been quite busy so my usual posting is down (don't worry, I have lots of food plans this weekend!) . . . but I can't believe the number of blogs I'm seeing that still post like 3x/day every day!

First encouraging words:


Fun Links:

#1: I've been going nuts pinning interiors for house #2. Like this red door. I'm absolutely obsessed with it on the inside and out.

#2: Oh, and while we're on the house -- if all goes well, we might find ourselves with a breakfast room, which I'd love to have look just like this one. How ridiculous is that?

#3: I love our current dark grey walls, but I think I'm warming up to that ubiquitous Revere Pewter color that's so beautifully adaptable as trends come and go.

#4: I've been using my FitBit Flex again, and I'm ready to do a full review of it next week. It may not be 100% accurate, but on the days when I track my steps I am definitely inspired to be more active in general. Now I sort of want this pretty colored set of bands to wear with it.

#5: Great sale on Sprout foods one of my favorite brands of kid snacks today. And be sure to check out this great Bike to Work collection of items, including racks, safety lights, baskets, and other accessories.

#6: These garden party cupcakes are too cute. In other food news, we were featured on BuzzFeed as one of the 18 Best Uses for Old Bay with our Dinosaur Kale Chips.

#7: How smart is this idea to place garbage bags on a paper towel roll? And did you know you can bring down a fever with Peppermint?

#8: In fact, I've been super interested in essential oils lately beyond the standard lavender and peppermint. I've been checking out a few introductory kits to get started and am about ready to commit to this First Aid Set. They are calming and relaxing, but I'm learning more about their use and I'd love to start delving deeper.

#9: How to make brown sugar! I'd love to do this for one of my many half dozen cookie recipes.

#10: And last, some of you were asking how I'm liking my Birkenstock Mayari sandals. Holy moly. They're my favorite shoes ever. Even more comfortable than my Saltwater sandals.

Lately on Writing Chapter Three:
Elsewhere:

HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND!

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Half Marathon Report

>> Monday, May 5, 2014

Well that race certainly didn't go as I had imagined. Though I was already a little shaky on how I thought my experience might pan out -- I had no idea that digestive issues would be my biggest concern. Yesterday marked my very first mid-race porta-John break . . . for an entire minute.

Somehow I still PRed by 10 seconds with a time of 1:44:16. Don't ask me how.


I'll be posting a full race recap on WalkJogRun sometime soon. But in short: I started the first 6 or so miles firmly with the 1:42-ers. (I wasn't wearing a watch, but I asked around what our pace was, and I was totally surprised I felt so effortlessly comfortable there.) However, also early on -- my stomach was churning (long story, but I think it was related to some other women's issues -- eek! -- TMI), so I slowed down quite a bit after hitting the 10K mark and mentally decided it just wasn't my day.

Also: Holy wind! On all -- ALL! -- the uphills!

When I got to around mile 8, I knew if I didn't stop -- my race wouldn't be pretty. So, I made the tough decision and said goodbye to a PR, at least I thought. The only other time I used porta-Johns during a race was when I did this same half marathon when I was pregnant. (Here's more about training for distances races while pregnant.)

When I returned to the course over sixty seconds later (I counted . . . in horror), I found myself next to this awesome woman my age and we struck up a conversation. We had tons in common (daughters, interests, pace, etc.) and she was holding strong and steady. She mentioned how we could still break 1:45 -- and I was absolutely thrilled. So, we ran together for the rest of the race. We also smiled and chatted the whole way to the finish, which actually puzzled a lot of other racers and spectators.

That's one of my favorite parts of events. I don't do many these days, but whenever I do, I encounter to the coolest people! So, I saw the clock in the distance and knew I could break my previous time if I gunned it to the finish. I crossed the line with energy to spare and I don't even feel sore today. Definitely frustrated that I didn't meet my full potential, but at the same time -- a PR is a PR!

Most of all, I'm impressed that my training plan improved my running strength so much, even though I wasn't able to stick 100% to it. Consistent running -- however it looks -- really does pay off. Getting in long runs -- at any pace -- really does improve confidence. Etc.

Last year I finished in this time (a PR by over 2 minutes) and was totally wiped out. This year? I'm already looking for another race to see if that bigger PR really is in me.

Last year versus this year:


Oh, and Stephen did pretty well, too. (Understatement of the year.) He came in third overall with a 1:13:40 finish. Congrats, Stephen!

There were tons of races this weekend. TONS! 

Did you run one? How'd you do? 

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Weekly Digest, no. 3

>> Saturday, March 15, 2014


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We ran the first major race of "spring" racing season. And we both PRed! Check out our thoughts on the event + I also reviewed a new fuel belt that doesn't bounce when I run -- majorly helpful.

Grocery Budget: $60 average continues

Continuing our #unsponsored review of Aldi shopping for the month. We've been able to stick to a $60 average budget for our food -- and that cuts nearly $200 off what we HAD been spending. Major savings, all while eating some good food. Sample dinners are also featured in this post.

Chocolate Chunk Energy "Cookies"

It's been a while since we shared a homemade energy chunk/bar recipe -- but we love them (and know you do, too!). This mix is one of my favorite to date -- and it's made with mostly Aldi ingredients, so it's also budget-friendly!

Weekend Things

Looking for some meal-spiration this weekend? Check out our 25 TOP RECIPES of 2013! I was surprised what made the list, but also excited to see how much you guys liked certain ones! (Plus a bunch of other fun links for the week.)


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We're All Doing This Parenting Thing Right (And Wrong!)

My thoughts on the mommy-wars, which are really irking me lately. Seems like every morning when I log onto my computer, there's a "new" debate (which is really just an old one, re-hashed). When is enough going to be enough?

What's the Deal?

The very best mom + baby + kid deals, all hand-picked for you! Some amazing steals this time around, including 70% off a great unisex windbreaker that's perfect for spring!

House Tour (NEW!)

Our house is going on the market next week, so that means it's FINALLY totally clean + so I could take photos. Check out how much our home has changed since the last tour we did way back in 2009!

Putting My Toddler In School

We're signing Ada up for preschool in the fall. But I need your help! Experienced moms: How many days do you think is best for a young 3-year-old? And other questions . . .


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HAPPY WEEKEND!

Ashley, Stephen, and Ada

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Recipes of 2013

>> Thursday, January 2, 2014

I always like to start the new year by making mention of all our recipes -- for new readers and old friends alike! Cooking is probably 75 percent of the focus here on the blog. In 2012, we gave you a grand 79 recipes in all (if you'd like to see my Top 12 favorites, be sure to check out that recap).

This year? Well, we outdid ourselves. Here are all 90 recipes we posted in 2013!


WAFFLES

Zucchini + Carrot Waffles
Summer Market Waffles
Gluten-Free Waffles
Peanut Butter + Banana Waffles
Spinach Green Waffles/Pancakes
Basic Homemade Freezer Waffles

EGGS

Overstuffed Mushroom Omelet
Soft Boiled Eggs Atop Toast
Fried Egg + Avocado Sandwich
The ULTIMATE Brunch Sandwich
Breakfast Quiche w/ Rosemary Crust

FRUIT + JUICE

Roasted + Herbed Citrus Fruit
Chocolate Green Bean Smoothie
Freshly Squeeze Grapefruit Juice
Carrot Juice in the Ninja Blender
Blackberry Lemonade for 2
Roasted Apple for 1

SAUCES, PESTO, HUMMUS, ETC.

Tangy Freezer BBQ Sauce
Grilled Kalamata Tomato Sauce
Blueberry Jam, Canned
10-Minute Heirloom Tomato Sauce
Garlic Scape + Swiss Chard Pesto, 2 Ways
Spinach Pumpkin Seed Pesto
Roasted Veggie Hummus
Boozy + Bold Chunky Tomato Sauce
Basil Hummus
Butternut Squash Pizza Sauce

COOKIES + BARS

Half Dozen Peanut Butter Cookies
Half Dozen Chocolate Chippers
Half Dozen Brownie Cookies
Sprouted Vegan Chocolate Chippers
Breakfast-Friendly Peanut Butter Cookies
Chocolate-Peanut Butter Energy Bars
Half Dozen GF Chocolate Chippers
Chocolate Peanut Butter Swirl Cookies
Chocolate Almond Butter Energy Chunks
Red Velvet Black Bean Brownies
Pinterest Brownie + Cookie Layer Bars, Made Healthier

CAKES + PIES + OTHER DESSERTS

Blueberry Applesauce Cakes
No-Bake Chocolate Pie w/ Lime
Chocolate Coconut Frozen Yogurt
Chocolate Cake w/ Chocolate Frosting
Incredible No-Bake Layer Bars
Homemade Peanut Butter Cups
Chocolate Pumpkin Pie
Baked Chocolate Doughnuts
Vegan Cinnamon Buns for 2
Tart Cherry Frozen Yogurt
Black Bean + Avocado Chocolate Pudding
Lemon Cornmeal Cakes

SWEET + SAVORY BREADS, ETC.

One Bowl Corn Muffins
Cheesy Old Bay Biscuits
Vegan Curried Cornbread
Chai Scones
Best Ever Banana Bread
Beautiful Sourdough Bread
Cinnamon Raisin Applesauce Bread
Honey WW Raspberry Scones
Sweet Chocolate Quick Loaf
Sourdough Soft Pretzels
Baked Blueberry Oatmeal

PIZZA + GARLIC KNOTS/ROLLS

Brie-Stuffed Pumpkin Garlic Rolls
Pumpkin Deep Dish Pizza
Pesto Pizza Dough
Veggie-Topped Pizza, Lightened Up
Cornmeal + Flax GF Pizza Crust 
Pumpkin Pesto Rolls

PASTA, ETC.

Spinach Mac 'n Cheese
Curried Mac 'n Cheese w/ Delicata Squash
Vegan Freezer Lasagna
Skillet Baked Cappellini Pomodoro

SOUPS

Carrot Soup w/ a Kick
Simple Slow Cooker Soup
Broccoli + Sweet Potato Soup

SIDES

Coconut Lime Rice w/ Peas
Beer-Soaked Sweet Potato Fries
Baked Sweet Potato Fries
Tangy Roasted Veggies
Red Curry Kimchi
Stephen's Annual Pickles
Maple Roasted Fingerling Potatoes

LUNCH + DINNER FAVORITES

Green Curry Tofu Stir-Fry
Tofu Avocado Salad
Veggie Beet Burgers
Tofu + Avocado Salad Cups
Tofu Scramble Hack
Steamed Pesto Dumplings
5-Minute Bruschetta Toast
Baked Veggie Pockets
Veggie Burgers in Bulk + Frozen


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Looks like we munched on homemade waffles, tomato sauces, pesto, and garlic rolls above all else. This year I'd like to do more with soups and bread baking. My sourdough starter ate itself early last year and I haven't made a fresh one since -- so that's high on the list of priorities.

We hope you enjoyed our year of food! We'll be incorporating these recipes into the larger recipe archive. And if you'd rather browse via photo, check out our Pinterest board, which has most everything from the past year.

Now off to bake bread with leftover juicing pulp!

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More Than a 5K

>> Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Running early in the morning gives me this whole new world of introspective thinking. It's dark, quiet, lonely and basically the perfect atmosphere for contemplation. I never set out to ruminate on any specific topic. It happens organically. Or perhaps is a trick my mind plays to make my body forget how much it hates working before dawn.

My most recent 5K was a proud moment for me. It was the first race I ran as a 30-year-old. In a new age group. Somehow this fact felt very significant to me as I pounded out those 3.1 miles. Overwhelmingly so. I am older, yes, but with regard to running, there's nothing I'd associate with being old or aging.

I felt strong, solid, and fast.
I PRed for the first time in over 6 years.
I'd love to do it all over again because I know I can get faster.
But it goes so much deeper than times and age group awards.


If you asked me 10 years ago, I would have guaranteed you that I'd be slower after having a baby. I mean, it was just an inevitable fact of life. Priorities shift and focus changes and running was to keep me skinny mostly anyway. I've never been much of a competitor, but by the time I was 30, I'd just be happy if I was still keeping fit in some way.

Except that now, running is so much more than exercise to me. I don't know when it happened exactly. It's just who I am. I'm much more dimensional, but the runner part of "Ashley" is a huge chunk that gives me confidence, growth, self understanding, patience, happiness, belonging, and -- yes -- some crazy muscular legs.


When I was 11 or 12, I'd gawk at YM and Seventeen magazines, imagining how cool + pretty high school girls felt like the ones on those glossy pages. When I turned 17, I felt no more grown up, really, than I had the year or two before. Yeah, I'd kissed a boy and started wearing makeup. Those girls in the magazines still seemed older somehow, more worldly, more knowing than I could ever be.

Basically, throughout the years, I've kept waiting for something to happen to me. For my job to somehow take over my identity and make me feel like a real person. For the place where I live to make me feel important or smart or some other adjective besides dull + boring. For it -- my life -- to make sense in some instant of clarity. 

As some of you pointed out, it seems our 30s are the time for switching the game around. It's all about empowerment. Taking charge. A refusal to wait and see if I'll somehow feel different the next time I'm "supposed" to, at the next big milestone. The 30s are about finding the meaning of life from within.

I'm done waiting. I'm already who I am meant to be and -- if I think hard -- who I want to be. Everything else is up to the work I put in it. The drive and passion and dedication I give to myself and those around me. Crossing the finish line with a new time to boast about is one thing. But carrying that feeling, that tenacity throughout everything I do is another.

That's why I run.

PS: If you'd like a more play-by-play 5K report, check out my recap on Walk, Jog, Run. It was the first time I raced with my GPS watch!

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Running Lately

>> Monday, July 8, 2013

My training lately has been solid. I had planned to run the Boilermaker 15K this coming weekend, but due to various circumstances, we ended up selling our bibs. Now, I'm running consistently . . . but with no real race until October.

So, I'm trying some new tactics with a couple non-race goals in mind:

  • Increase weekly mileage (to 30-35 miles) 
  • Run 5-6 days/week
  • Incorporate strength in a sustainable way


Here's the last two weeks at a glance:

M: 3 miles
T: 4.5 miles
W: 5 miles
R: 3.5 miles
F: OFF
S: 6.5 miles
S: 4.5 miles
= 27 miles

M: 5K + .5 cooldown
T: 4 miles + kettlebells/pushups/burpees
W: OFF
R: 6.2 miles -- x-country run
F 4.25 miles + pushups/burpees
S: OFF/travel
S: 10 miles at 9:12 pace
= 28 miles

I didn't try any strength that first week back after being sick, but even just one day of kettlebells last week was tough. I'm hoping to take a class at our gym which is 45 minutes long, twice a week -- hopefully other people and a scheduled time will motivate me to stick with it.

Mileage-wise, it has taken me a really long time to push past 20-25 miles a week. When I was breastfeeding, I felt the energy was literally sucked out of me several times each day -- and running 4 times a week was a gigantic accomplishment. Then, I got used to running 4 days a week because it allowed my body to rebound and avoid injury.

Now? I'm feeling strong and, all of a sudden, ready for more. As I prepare for pregnancy with number 2, I'd like to develop a bigger base, too. So, I've been experimenting with 5-6 days a week and -- so far -- haven't had any issues. I have been making sure to increase weekly mileage slowly from week to week and am thinking I will likely top out around 30-32 miles this coming week.


The heat + humidity has played a major role, but not necessarily in a bad way. Make no mistake: I HATE summer running. But it forces me to slow down most days and run my hard workouts hard and the rest at much easier paces, which taxes my body less, too.

>> Take yesterday's long run -- 10 miles at 9:12/mile (as logged on my Garmin 10). Usually I run my long runs between 8:15-8:30/mile, depending on distance . . . but with the humidity, I just went along at what felt comfortable.

>> Today, I was able to go out and run a shakeout run without any aches + pains + tiredness. Yet, I was also able to show my speed on last Monday's 5K hard effort with 7:37/mile. I've never been one to go as easy as I should on maintenance days, so learning how it works, when to hold back, and when to go fast has been a big step.

Have you been doing anything new with your training?

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Running X-Country

>> Friday, July 5, 2013

Hope everyone had a great holiday! Ours was packed with activity, food, and fun. And it all started with a morning run of Stephen's high school cross-country course in NJ.



It's been a long time since I've run on grass versus roads -- so, to say this course was incredibly challenging for me is an understatement. We started after 10AM (dumb!) with the temps already in the mid-80s and the humidity at 95%.  To complicate things, it's been raining a lot in our region -- so the ground was saturated, muddy -- and extremely steamy with the sun's rays.

I think you can see where this is going.

The plan was to run the 5K course twice (for me) and 3x (for Stephen). The first loop, we'd do together so I wouldn't get lost. If you've never run a cross-country course around a high school before -- basically it zigzags irregularly around the grounds and woods surrounding. At Stephen's school, there were markers, but nothing is numbered -- so it was easy to get confused. Even Stephen forgot some twists and turns.

The first mile was alright. We finished in 8:10 . . . but the humidity was oppressive. I'm sure that's a relative statement, but for this Northern girl . . . I have little tolerance. This was WAY beyond even my most extreme capacity for heat. Thankfully the second mile dipped into lightly shaded trails, so we got some respite, although an incline to boot.

Soon after that, we found ourselves in this gigantic cornfield. And this is where I had a mini-panic attack. Not really. Sort of? Well, we ran down, down, down the field and I knew it was humid, but because we were zooming with little effort it was OK. Then we had to go back up the incline again. The sun had been covered by the clouds but was swiftly revealed again as soon as we hit the uphill, and -- all of a sudden -- I couldn't breathe.

I told Stephen I had to stop . . . I tried getting a breath, but felt completely trapped and suffocated by the thick air. I think my lungs are still recovering from my chest cold a couple weeks ago, so that could be part of it. But whatever it was, I spent 30 seconds frantically trying to get a good inhale. Eventually I calmed down, some breeze hit me, and we decided to keep going.


After the first loop, I just didn't want to do it again. So, I rested under a tree for 5 minutes or so. Drank some water, too. Stephen went off to finish his run on the roads (he wasn't feeling it either, plus the mud was tricky to maneuver). I ran to the track to do a few drama-free loops + eventually headed back to the shaded part of the trail and finished up my other 5K.

I definitely was running 1-2 minutes slower than my usual pace -- it was a little shocking to see on my watch. But in the heat, you do what you can, right?

Yup. It was an up and down sort of run. I'm sure you've had them. I guess even the most dedicated and semi-"hardcore" runners can freak out and have a massively bad day. Still, it was really fun to see where Stephen raced so many times when he started his running career.

Let's go back in the fall, shall we?


Did you sweat to celebrate the Fourth? I'm thinking a lot of you ran races! Tell me about them!

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Half Marathon Race Recap

>> Monday, May 6, 2013

Yesterday Stephen and I laced up to the start of our third Bridge Half Marathon. The weather was great -- not a cloud in the sky and temps in the low-50s. We had a bit of a rocky night, which I'll write more about on Writing Chapter Three, but overall I felt well-rested, well-trained, and well positioned to set a PR.


I decided against running with a watch at the last minute -- Stephen suggested I get a new battery for my old Timex so I could generally gauge my pace, but in the chaos of Ada's bedtime, I just plain forgot. I don't make many excuses as a mommy-runner, but, and this is no joke, anytime we have a race, there is (without fail, it seems) some major tantrum or sleep issue or SOMEthing. It's just part of being a parent, but it also means that lead-up to big events isn't always pretty or ideal.

So, there I was at the start. Wringing my hands, compulsively stretching my IT-band, and wondering if it was a mistake to go blind. I kept reminding myself to go out slow and steady. Conservative and then push the pace later on. I wanted to run negative splits and feel strong.

The gun went off + I started cruising. I settled into what felt like a comfortable pace at first, but when I quickly found myself at mile 2 with a neighboring runner, I learned I was running 7:30/mile! 15 minutes for 2 miles was way too fast for a race this long (I was hoping to maintain maybe 7:50 overall, so likely start in the low 8s), I immediately knew it and may have been heard saying "stupid, stupid, STUPID!" to myself.

Yeah. Definitely stupid.

I pulled back a bit and tried to collect myself. The sun was out and hot -- something we're not at all used to in these parts -- and it was zapping me. I decided at that point to divide the race into the water stations. 2 miles apart. Just make it to the 4-mile station. The 6. The 8. This strategy worked well in some ways, but in others . . . my aggressive starting pace was r.e.a.l.l.y hurting me + my time.

I got to mile 6 at which point the course crosses one of my favorite bridges in the area. I felt empty inside, probably because all I could choke down for breakfast was 1/4 of a bagel and a little applesauce. People were passing me. I was just in a tunnel, ignoring everything outside myself. But before I knew it, I was at mile 8. I knew my pace was slowing, but I had mentally chosen to just keep putting one foot in front of the other.


Ada and Stephen's mom were waiting by mile 9 with some coconut water and Honey Stingers. Oh, yeah. Mile 9 was after quite a hill . . . so when I go to the top and saw them, I was, well, a lot of things. First: Ada has never cheered us on at a race, so I was happy to see her. Second, I really needed that fuel. Third: My IT-band had started acting up and I wanted to stop. But I didn't want to stop. Wow, I really wanted to stop.

I ended up stopping for a good 30 seconds with them to get my sh*t together, because at that point, I was physically and mentally a mess. I hate when people say "oh, well, if I didn't do such-and-such, I could have run THIS much faster" . . . because in reality, no . . . no you couldn't have. I needed to stop and if I hadn't stopped, I'm pretty sure I would have had to walk some of the race.

I digress . . . 

I kept going. Mile 10 = another water station. I sipped and then splashed the rest of the water over my head. My IT-band ached but for some reason, stopping had given me more energy. I picked up the pace and continued to do so for the remainder of the race. Honestly, those last several miles were blurry. I was tired, I was running fast, and the sun was right at my face.

I went all out for the last mile and then when I got to the turn into the finishing area, I gunned it. I don't know about you, but whenever I'm at the end of a race, I get this overwhelming surge of adrenaline, so much that I can't feel my body. I also had this weird crying thing going on, which had nothing to do with a fuzzy sense of accomplishment. I was just happy it was OVER.

The clock in the distance . . . 1:44:25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30. I crossed the line and basically roared with YEAHHHHH! I did it. Somehow I managed to PR by just over 2 minutes (my previous was 1:46:27 at the Runners World Half in October) after an ugly, dumb-with-a-capital-D race.


My official time is 1:44:25, 7:55/mile, 17th out of 169 in the 20-29 female category, 192 out of 1076 overall.

(Stephen ran a 1:16:19 and placed 5th in male overall, which is fantastic, but not a PR for him. In fact, he even ran some 13.1 distance training runs at that pace. He says it just wasn't his day and he made a decision early on to pull back and enjoy. At mile 9, he got some gusto and passed three front-runners before crossing the finish.)

Happy + proud. I trained hard for this PR. Overshadowing all of that, some pain.


My IT-band was really warm and icky feeling and feels no different today, so I'm going to lay off it for the next week. In the final miles, I don't remember much, but I do remember bargaining with myself.

I know I shouldn't make any rash decisions, but there's a chance I might drop to the half marathon in the fall. Not because I'm wussing out . . . but because if I'm getting IT-band woes during the half, you KNOW I'll get those ten-fold during full marathon training.

I didn't have any inklings of it returning during my training this time around, so I thought I was over it. Anyway, I've been there and done that, twice, and I don't know if I'm ready or willing to deal with it again.

Not one of our better photos together. I just needed a shower :)


Did you race this weekend? I feel like there were 10,000,000 races. How did you do? Or have you signed up for anything recently? Tell me your running-related news!

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Runner's World Half Marathon Recap

>> Thursday, October 25, 2012


If you remember, the last half marathon we ran was way back in May. It was my first big deal race after having Ada, and I surprised myself with a finish in the 1:48 range. My training had been hit-or-miss, but relatively solid. My goal for the Runner's World Half was to commit to running 5 days a week and to not miss any long runs if I could help it.

How did I do? I'd say well. However, I didn't meet either of these training goals. My training ranged between 3 and 5 days a week, but most weeks I'd finish 4 runs. Usually on Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday. As for long runs (Sundays), I pushed many to Mondays and I missed 2 of them entirely.

Stephen had been telling me about the course for months. (Image from the RW Half Participant Guide.)


That the website described the streets of Bethlehem, PA, as "hilly" and "challenging" -- but I didn't pay it much attention. I've done tons of courses with rolling hills, and I consider tackling inclines a strength of mine. I trained on some hills, but, as I found out on race day, not nearly enough.

OK. So, here's us before the race. (I'm very car-sick in this photo!)


At the start, I decided to take off my long-sleeve in favor of my sleeveless shirt. I have such a hard time knowing what to wear while racing, and I usually end up too hot. The weather was almost perfect -- cool, but with promise of warming up with some sun.

I positioned myself ambitiously, right by the 1:45 pace group (8:00/mile). I've never run in a pace group, so I thought this might be a good time to try it out. Before I knew it, I was off and running. After a slight decline, the first hill revealed itself. I made it up just fine, but was lagging a bit behind the group. I figured as long as I kept their little signs in view, I'd be fine.

One thing I haven't given much thought to before is downhills. I'm probably going to dwell on all the climbing I did in this race. But I think the declines balanced them out. Anyway, I race on those declines. Fast. But not many people do. I think it's silly not to take advantage of such a controlled fall like that. (If you want to try it out, make sure you practice. It uses different muscles.)

Back up for a second. To the expo, where we got this great family photo taken.


At the expo, I heard people saying over and over again that once you get past mile 7, the hills were done (with one exception) and it was just coasting to the finish. I let that dictate how I powered up all those hills. I RACED them, which is unusual for me.

I should have looked at the elevation chart beforehand.


Or maybe not. In all, the elevation gain was over 800 feet. That's the most I've ever done in a race, and I've completed some very hilly courses. I kept thinking those first seven miles, which were a complete blur, that it would be over at the 7-mile marker. But as you can see from this chart, one of the biggest hills is between 7 and 8.

I guess I misinterpreted what "after mile 7" meant. So, this is really the part I can remember. After I hit mile 7, things leveled out, and I thought I was in the clear. No one in my pace range spoke very much. They were all very focused. This is how I can tell I was actually racing, because I didn't mind. Sometimes I am way too happy and giddy, which shows me I'm not expending enough energy.

A man jogged next to me and said he'd be using my pink cap to pace himself the whole race. Soon after, we passed by some houses and his whole family was there cheering him on. I think he had three daughters. Fun!

Also at this point, he blew past me because I saw that gigantic hill. Seriously: Seeing the hill was so demoralizing. I thought I was done for a while, so I think I even swore under my breath. I made it up, but my legs felt like there was nothing left. I hadn't trained for this type of difficulty, and because I was car-sick, I didn't eat a huge breakfast. I think my energy stores were low.

However, things looked up -- or, rather, down -- after that. The neighborhoods were absolutely gorgeous with all the colorful leaves. There were lots of people sitting outside their houses cheering. It reminded me a lot of the Boilermaker in that respect.

And speaking of 15Ks, I wasn't wearing a watch, but by my estimation (and the 9-mile clock marker), I think I did close to my PR on this course for that distance. That was a long way of saying I was speeding along quite well despite feeling so tired.

But the 1:45 group was nowhere to be found.



I thought of Stephen. Poor Stephen. There are no groups for his pace. Running in the top five must be so lonely. Thanks to Kerris (congrats on your race!) for passing along this great photo her husband took of Stephen -- not knowing it was him!

I said the first 7 miles were a blur, but really the rest was, too. I just remember that the weather was perfect. The leaves were beautiful. Bethlehem was beautiful. People around me started to pass me. I was keeping steady-ish, though. But others were speeding up. I heard a few say "we can still make 1:45," so I figured I was somewhat close to my goal.

I started making promises to myself at mile 10. I'll never make myself run a full marathon again -- I will stick to halfs like these, as they are definitely enough challenge. I will give myself an entire week off from running. I'll eat an entire pizza when I'm done. Just don't stop. I'll do anything for you, Ashley, just finish the damn race.

Somewhere in those last couple miles, we passed through Moravian College and some of the historic district again. (These are old photos from when we raced the Lehigh Valley Half a few years ago.)


I also passed by Runner's World Editor at Large Amby Burfoot, who was looking to beat his 1:48 previous PR. He must have! Everyone was saying hi and thanking him for all his hard work. That was one super cool thing about this race. All the RW writers, editors, staff. They have helped me so much with my running, I felt honored to be racing alongside them.

I got to the final mile and my legs were burning. It reminded me much of my marathon days, so I could tell that this course was leagues above what my training prepared me for. I decided (having no idea where I would finish time-wise, Zen-runner that I am), my goal was just to bring it in without stopping. Even if that meant slowing a bit. Which I did because there's a slight, slight incline for part of that final mile.

As we approached the end, I heard drums, cheering, and saw this awesome flame above the finish line. The whole steel mill structure where the race made its home base was asolutely incredible. I wrote more about it on Writing Chapter Three. Anyway, I saw the clock. 1. 4. 6 -- OK I was CLOSE!

Then 35, 36, 37, 38, 39 . . .  ever-ticking along.

I sprinted because I DID NOT want to go over into the 1:47s. And I did it. I think the clock time was 1:46:42 or something like that. But my official time was 1:46:27. A whole 4 seconds off my pre-baby PR at Lake Placid in 2010.

It might not be 1:45, but on that course, I'll take it.


The best part? I r.a.c.e.d the entire half marathon, hills and all. I may have slowed down a couple times, but not by much. My average pace was 8:07, only 7 seconds over goal. At the end, I wanted to collapse, not take cute photos or Tweet my good news. My biggest accomplishment is that I feel competitive again. I'm giving it everything I have, perhaps more than I ever have . . . and only one year after Ada was born.

I didn't think it would be possible. Then I saw Stephen, who first congratulated me and then quickly told me that he had crossed the line 3rd OVERALL. But his story is one for another day.

Recovery has been rough. That day, I took two very long showers because I felt so out of it. I took Monday off from activity, but returned to some easy jogging Tuesday and there was yesterday's pretty jaunt. I was thinking of doing another half in two weeks, but I think I may allow my body more time to heal.

Whatever I do, I know I'll be back for next year's race. The event was super organized, featured stunning scenery, allowed me to run with some amazing people, and -- despite the difficulty -- was fun. Thanks, Runner's World. What a great race!

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Women's Distance Festival 2012

>> Thursday, August 9, 2012


I ran in our area's Women's Distance Festival 5K last night. If you're unfamiliar, this awesome series was created back in 1979 in "response to the lack of distance running events in the Olympics Games for women."

You can find more information on the RRCA website.


The original race date was in July, but was canceled due to a tornado. I had planned to try and PR at the race, maybe a 22:29, beating the 5K I ran in 22:48 in July. But that was before I went on vacation and got sick. So, last night's effort was more to get a good speed session in.

I like to use races as speed work. It's a sneaky way to keep your legs fresh and fast if you don't regularly engage in track sessions or other quick repeats on roads.


I brought a cheering section with me. It's something I don't normally have at a race since Stephen's busy running and Ada's usually with her grandparents. So, it was nice to have Stephen with Ada on the sidelines AND our good friend Kevin visiting. He stayed late specifically to watch the race!

The temps were in the upper 80s at the 6 pm start. Not my favorite weather. Thankfully the humidity was low. But no breeze made it difficult to breathe in a section of the course near the river.


My first mile came in at 7:25. I was honestly surprised because I didn't feel like I was racing. Strong and steady. I think I settle around 7:30 when I do surges during my normal training, so I guess it makes sense.

At the 2.1-mile point, I think I remember hearing 15:40. I just kept my focus on the shade. Though it was hot, the shade certainly helped. I also borrowed Stephen's sunglasses and have decided that next year, sunglasses are a must-have for my summer running. They help -- mentally, especially -- so much!


Before I knew it, I was back with the spectators again. And then it happened. For the first time ever, I saw Ada on the sidelines! In her little stroller, she was babbling away. I couldn't help thinking about how wonderful it will be someday to run this race with her.

But I still had a good half mile to go. So, I kept my legs moving, pace steady.


I came in at 23:12 (7:28 pace) 24th overall (there were 208 women -- great turnout!) and 6th in my age category. Though, I think they need to have a breastfeeding division. Sneaking in this race between two feeding sessions was challenging.


If you haven't run in an all-female race before -- I recommend searching for one in your area. I feel the atmosphere is incredibly supportive. Plus, it's kind of fun to see how you stack up against women versus when a huge number of men finish first.

Have you run in a women-only race before? What did you think?


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Giveaway Winner and 7 Links!

>> Monday, August 1, 2011

Just wanted to pop on here to announce the winner of the Mighty Leaf Iced Tea Giveaway. #23 -- Suzanne -- who writes: "I get the MIGHTY munchies at night, so I'd drink this tea instead. Love ice coffee in the summer. But have green tea every morning."


And now . . . my 7 LINKS post. I've been tagged a few times now (I apologize because I lost track on by who during our vacation -- I know Lisa and Ashley tagged me), and have slowly been gathering my posts. Enjoy!

1.) My Most Beautiful Post:

Skinny Versus Healthy


Of the many posts I've written, I've received a lot of heartfelt comments and emails regarding this post. I think it's helpful to share our struggles and successes as we grow and learn more about life, health, and happiness.

Along these same lines, the Being Healthy Is All About Choices post speaks to these same sentiments.

2.) My Most Popular Post:

Frozen Banana Bites


People can't seem to get enough of this delicious frozen treat. We can't either. Frozen bananas taste like ice cream. Plain and simple. Slice 'em up, cover 'em in chocolate -- BAM. Perfection.

3.) My Most Controversial Post:

Becoming Un-Vegan


Oh, boy. At first, I thought this post was great. It spoke to a lot of people who don't like to label their diets. It has helped others who are just learning about vegetarianism and veganism as well. But then came the whole PETA issue.


So, that definitely added a bit of controversy. But I'm sticking by my feelings on the issue.

4.) My Most Helpful Post:

On Being a Self-Made Athlete


Just like the Skinny versus Healthy post, I've received a wonderful response to to-be athletes (and seasoned ones) who have shared a similar journey. Along these same lines, though, I think My First D(id) N(ot) F(inish) was also helpful. Not only to those who have experienced defeat in the marathon (or other races), but also for me.

In the DNF, Part II, I explain how much I learned from all your thoughts and comments on the topic. But we all know I had to make some Tough Decisions about my marathon plan when my injury got the best of me. Eventually ending in Acceptance . . . Sort Of.

5.) A Post Whose Success Surprised Me:

On Secret Recipes . . .


I was just surprised that on a post where I didn't provide a recipe, people had stuff to say. There have been other recipe posts I thought were GREAT that have had almost no comments or interest. Weird!

6.) A Post I Didn't Think Got the Attention It Deserved:

Running Advice From Your T.V.


Some people were amused by this post, but I thought it was hilarious AND helpful. Then again, my sense on humor isn't for everyone -- so no worries. But I still think it's a goodie!

Do we have any more TV-related fitness advice? Yup! Biggest Loser: 10 Things I've Learned.

7.) The Post I'm Most Proud Of:

Ode to My 17-Year-Old Self: The Mile


This is one of the only posts I've taken a long time to write. I had to think WAY back to that time in my life. To who I was as a person. And I think it's well written. Really, that's all. I'm proud of it!

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