Showing posts with label spring. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spring. Show all posts

Spring Break + Current Goals

>> Thursday, April 13, 2017

SPRING BREAK! It's not exactly girls gone wild over here, at least not in the sense that we all know it. Nope. But in just one short hour, my big girl will be home for a week for her spring break. Stephen will be home, too. This is some much-needed rest and recovery time we all desperately need. Let me tell you.

What are our plans? Well, to do a bunch of . . . nothing.


We had initially planned to go visit my brother in Burlington, VT. Sadly, our plans fell through due to a perfect storm of financial stuff (unusually high vet and doctor bills, taxes, summer vacation deposits, etc.) and overall exhaustion. Yeah. We are running on fumes, and the thought of picking up and driving 5 hours with two kids seemed beyond overwhelming.

So, we'll be having a stay-cation of sorts. We plan to spend time in the sunny backyard playing on the swing set. We'll hopefully get a start on some gardening and outdoor beautifying (we really need to get a new fence -- so I want to investigate our options there). I need a few hours to go through bags of clothing for donation. (Oh, and if you remember from last year . . . we spent almost all our spring break purging. It was glorious.)

You know. We just need to do some catching up. I took on a good amount of work this month. While it won't be a total vacation for me, it'll be nice to have dedicated work hours without worrying about interruption from the kids.

Here's what else is on our spring break bucket list:

  • Walk to get ice cream at the local shop
  • Have a picnic, weather-permitting
  • Finish painting living room and basement stairwell
  • Visit a big playground
  • Have Mexican food in the town over
  • Enjoy a day-trip within an hour of us
  • Go on a date? Maybe? Hopefully?
  • Each of us have a friend-date
  • Start a nature book (for Ada -- more on this soon)
  • Visit the library
  • Start planning our summer
  • Grill pizza
  • Have a bonfire

I, personally, have some other random things I want to start back up in my life. Yoga, for example, even just 10 minutes a day would benefit me greatly. I am feeling sore and stiff from all the running I've been doing. Last night my running buddy and I did 8 miles. I felt awesome when we finished . . . and this morning I'm incredibly sore. I also feel like I've let my strength dwindle as running took over any kettlebells I was doing. But now my hand/wrist is injured somehow, so I don't know how soon I'll be getting into a new routine there.

I also want to do a few videos for the blog next week. Since Stephen will be home, my goal is to film three that I've been meaning to do for a while. It's just hard to coordinate good lighting, makeup/getting ready, and free time to do them. Just so you know this isn't an empty promise, the three videos are: 10 Things You Don't Know About Me, My Job + Career History, and Exactly How Crunchy Am I?

I hope you're all having a great week! I have noticed that it's spring break in quite a number of other places across the country. What are you all doing to fill your time? Or are you, like us, just happy to get a break from the madness of schedules, obligations, and general craziness?

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Five Things I No Longer Buy // Minimalism

>> Monday, March 13, 2017

This whole minimalism thing is a process. That's for sure. It started out long ago with just a thought. And then a bit of passion. From there, it got physical. And by that, I mean we got rid of a bunch of stuff. Remember last year when I took you all on our spring cleaning adventures? By the end, we had figured out some major stuff about how to clear everything out and we were down to just a few bins in storage.

Amazing. Not so amazing is where we're at a year later. I blame it on having a baby. But the stuff, or maybe should I type out The Stuff, has slowly made a return. Not to previous levels, but we definitely need to take some time again to get back on track.


The hardest part isn't actually purging. Sure, you need to make those keep, sell, donate, and trash piles. Sure, you need to part with things that you may be emotionally tied to. But once you've done that -- it feels amazing. The hard part is actually NOT BUYING and NOT BRINGING HOME things to fill all that empty space.

So, here are some things I have stopped buying since committing to being more minimalist. We're still a work-in-progress over here. But saying no to these areas has helped tremendously. We need to add more items to this list, and I'll note those down below.

5 Things I No Longer Buy

#1: Paper towels, plates, etc.

We do not buy any paper towels, paper plates, napkins, paper cups, etc. Not only are they wasteful, but they also clutter up the trash can and pantry space. This isn't to say we don't have some rogue ones around the house. My parents and in-laws (trying to be helpful -- so we appreciate the sentiment) do end up buying us paper towels on occasion. My mother-in-law also has a thing for getting Ada decorated paper plates for holidays, birthdays, etc. We try to use them sparingly and re-use them as many times as we can (for example, I may use them as paint trays a few times).

We have a cloth towel system for cleaning the house. We also have two sets of Corel dishes in plain white. It is enough for eight people total. We very, very infrequently would need more than that.

#2: Cleaning Supplies

You guys know that we make a lot of our own cleaners. A great all-purpose spray is just vinegar with water and some essential oils. You can use different ratios of this to get the job done. You can add some rubbing alcohol to make it suitable for cleaning glass. In other words: Vinegar is awesome. Here are many ways you can use it.

We also make our own laundry detergent, dishwasher tabs, and even some of our own personal care items, like deodorant, lotion cubes, and face scrub.

#3: Fast Fashion

I have so much to write about this topic. I think my LuLaRoe obsession was my breaking point. I had this brief love affair and bought #alltheleggings and it left me feeling really empty and sad. I've made some major changes to my wardrobe, including selling most of my LLR (in my Poshmark closet) and buying the vast majority of my clothing second hand now (again, on Poshmark -- you can use code NYRLS to get a $5, btw -- not sponsored).

I have been trying to switch out my clothing with more timeless pieces. Also buying natural fibers, like FLAX, that are made to last for many years without wearing out. I will talk much more about all these changes when I show you guys my 33-piece wardrobe. That post will be a video. I'm in a weird place with my wardrobe right now because one day it's 65 and sunny . . . and tomorrow we're expecting up to 18 inches of snow.

#4: Sheets and Blankets

When we were doing the great purge last year, I discovered that I hoard blankets. If I see something warm and cuddly, I simply cannot pass it up. Or, at least I wasn't able to a year or so ago. I am happy to report that I have not bought a blanket in a little over a year. We've even pared down on our sheets so we have just one pair of flannel and two cotton for our bed.

In Ada's minimalist bedroom tour, you can see that I also stored away the top sheets on her bed and only use the fitted.

#5: Toys

OK. So, this one isn't something we totally don't buy. We have just changed a lot about how we buy toys. As in, we don't buy many . . . and we are continually looking to pare down on them. This is really difficult with so many generous friends and relatives. Instead of toys, we try to buy Ada things to do, like coloring books, where she's being creative. Or we try to invest in experiences versus stuff. Like with clothing, this is a topic I need to devote an entire post to writing.

I also need to give you guys a tour of our basement play room. This is one area that I just cannot seem to totally control. Part of it is because it's hard to make kids give up toys. It's also hard to part with things that were given as gifts, whether or not the child plays with whatever it is. I think you parents out there know what I'm talking about. This is a tricky area.

Our policy in the house is that we do not buy toys unless it is a holiday, like Christmas or birthday. There are limits on the number of toys. And we like to get rid of something if we are bringing in new. I won't lie, though. Right now my basement looks a bit like a daycare center. That's what a late November birthday, Christmas, and having a new-ish baby will do!

We're Not Perfect


Thing is, we are far from perfect. Minimalism has been a two steps forward, one step backward process for us. What remains a constant is that both Stephen and I see value to trying to live with less. We may fail at times, but we regroup and often chat about how to get where we want to be.

Here's something cool, too. Using the cash envelope system is really helping us bring less stuff into the house. It's because we end up writing out shopping lists, seeing where our money is going, and thinking more about the purchases we make in general.

Good Resources


If you want to read more, check out these links.

How to program your mind to stop buying crap you don't need via LifeHacker
10 ways to stop shopping for a while via Be More With Less
Giving up (new) clothes for a year via Becoming Minimalist
How to not buy anything for a year via Two Less Things

More Minimalism:


Eliminating the Maybe
7 Clutter Categories
Cleaning Week Snapshots
Wannabe Minimalists

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Unplugged // My Month Away from Facebook

>> Monday, February 27, 2017

So, I didn't write about it on the blog, but I took February off from Facebook. It's something I had been meaning to do for quite some time. I signed up my senior year of college -- and that was 12 years ago. Phew. I think that finally pushed me over the edge was all the political talk, the constant stream of news and opinion pieces, and my own nagging feeling of being addicted to social media.

I'm proud to say I actually did it.
I quit.
I survived.
And, dare I say, thrived with my time away.

So much, in fact, that I have decided to effectively quit for another month. Well, mostly. The thing is, Facebook is somewhat of a necessary evil these days. It's a way you can connect with people you don't get to see. And when you live away from many of your close friends -- it serves as a handy form of communication. Especially for an introvert like me who doesn't like talking on the phone.


Alright, here's how I did it.


Step 1: I posted a message a few days before the start of the month explaining that I was going to sign off for the month. I told my friends that I had downloaded Facebook messenger as a means of communication, but I also provided my email address if anyone wanted to get in touch with me.

Step 2: I . . . just . . . stopped going onto Facebook. I will be completely honest that in the first day, I was actually really surprised  to find myself typing in the address in my browser bar . . . like every time I had a spare moment. It became almost laughable. But after a week or so, the automatic nature of it faded and I just stopped going onto the site.

That's really all you need to do. If I continue my hiatus this month, I plan to take the following measures to improve my experience.

  • I may block the site somehow on my phone. It wasn't as much of an issue on my laptop because I primarily am on that for work purposes. Does anyone have a recommendation for blocking the address on my phone? I know there are some site blockers out there.
  • I will switch off notifications that get sent to my email. The only times I did feel compelled to log on this month were when well-meaning friends shared some cool stuff on my wall.  
  • I may try to find an automated way to share my blog posts via Facebook. Though, it wasn't too bad just quickly logging on, typing up what my blog was about, and then logging off.

 Some things I learned during my time away.


  • First are foremost, you can live without Facebook. I am still alive. I filled my mind with far less useless knowledge this month and had much more time to read things that actually meant something to me. I also took far fewer quizzes to tell me what Golden Girl I am, etc. And you know what? That stuff is interesting for sure, but definitely not necessary in my life, or so I discovered.
  • Your real friends won't forget about you. In fact, you're forge more meaningful friendships and spark more interesting conversations with the people who take the time to contact you off your wall. Yes, I did hold on to my Messenger capabilities and will continue to do so. But instead of sharing mindless random stuff, I send a good friend a great bread recipe because I knew she had been looking for one and otherwise made plans to meet up with people, you know, in the flesh.
  • There's a lot of other stuff you can be doing with all the time you spend surfing. I read a good chunk of my Hamilton biography this month, I also cleaned much more of my house, and I spent more one-on-one time with Ada doing crafts. Now that the weather is warmer, not having a feed to scroll through should prove even more exciting for my personal life and hobbies.
  • Fringe friends don't bring me joy. There's something relaxing about flipping through your feed and seeing what so-and-so is up to from all those years ago. The thing is, after I've spend some time away, I realized that maybe I don't care that X person is having a baby. Sure it's nice, but I haven't spoken with her in five years. Or Y and Z went to Europe? That's nice. I actually only ever met them a few times. So, maybe I have no business creeping on their vacation photos?
  • Along those same lines, it takes a lot of energy to maintain "friendships" that don't necessarily fill my cup, so to speak. I remember seeing a TED talk about the number of people you can have meaningful relationships with and how anything more is just draining. Yeah. Quitting Facebook is good as a remedy for that situation.
  • I have other social media addictions. Instagram, I'm looking at you. I quit Twitter long ago. I only do Pinterest in spurts while nursing. But Instagram is definitely something that sucks me in. And you know what? I may need to work on it. Right now, I'm cool with that. I try to keep most of my browsing to nursing sessions and a few breaks every now and again. Not being on Facebook so much allowed me to find some new feeds I love. Right now Kaity at Fare Isle is my favorite.

 Next steps in my journey.


With the time I save not scrolling around on Facebook this month, I want to:

  • Get together with a real life friend at least once a week. It's easy to get caught up in being too busy or too strapped to nap schedules. I already have plans to visit a friend of mine who lives slightly out of town later this week. I think once I get in the habit, it will become more automatic to find space for these connections in my daily life.
  • Find a better work-life balance. My job requires me to be online often for writing. Blogging gets me a bit bogged down online most days of the week. I may experiment with having a posting schedule that would free up a couple days a week to spend entirely computer and device-free. More to come with this soon as I hash it out.
  • I also plan to participate in the National Day of Unplugging on March 3rd this year. It's great to quit Facebook, but I also think lessening my time on screens in general is a bigger goal I'd like to achieve. Especially after I read the Hands-Free Mama book a couple years back.
  • I'd also like to pick back up my cross-stitching hobby that I left behind before Eloise was born. It brought me a lot of joy, and I do think I still spend too much time on my phone in the evenings. Stephen and I were just discussing having a couple TV-free evenings, and cross-stitching may be just the thing I want to do with my free time.

Another revelation:


I've also realized that a major reason I liked being on Facebook was to share photos of the kids with my friends. The thing is, I don't need to share so many. No one cares that much. And I don't want to have tons of photos of my kids online. I think it's actually more for me. The process of taking photos brings me joy. Looking at my photos makes me happy.

Instead of sharing this with the world all the time, I am going to sign up for Chatbooks and regularly get some photo books printed out that I myself will be able to look at and share with my family. Has anyone else used Chatbooks? What is your opinion? I'll be sure to do a review soon! I loved their commercial on YouTube!

OK. Who here has quit Facebook? Did I forget anything? Anyone feel motivated to take a trial break this month? I'd love to hear your thoughts!!!

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Why Organizing Doesn't Work (For Us)

>> Friday, April 29, 2016

Here's a long-overdue spring purge post about why simple organizing just doesn't work to spiff up our spaces. I mean, we're still learning as we go along. I can't believe how many times we've set out to have "this clean" be the "final clean" -- but something was actually different about this time around. Versus organizing the crap we had around the house, we actually got rid of most everything we deemed nonessential.

Getting rid of a large portion of your belongings can be overwhelming. There's this tendency, at least for me, to feel like I'm foolish getting rid of something I might need in the future. I would stow things away for someday, thinking of all the many scenarios where I'd need five different winter coats or all those old issues of Runner's World or six thousand serving spoons. I'd feel guilty getting rid of anything we were given as gifts even if they were broken or just didn't fit out lifestyle.

Here are the three main reasons organizing doesn't work (for us). File this post under opinions. Food for thought. It's not how YOU should approach life or your home. It's just how we've started seeing things, and it's been quite life-changing.


You still have all that stuff. 


Even if you go through, categorize, and put everything away in clearly marked boxes -- you still have things literally hanging over your head in the attic. Or it's in countless bins in the garage or basement. We had over 20 bins of things . . . and when we really took the time to go through the items one by one, we realized that likely most of those things would never make it back into the house.

It took several moves and tries, but finally letting go enabled us to see how foolish we were for schlepping that stuff around. How much energy we spent moving those bins from our old house to the new house. Or moving them from the attic to the basement, etc. How much mental energy we spent on, well, things that we didn't really need anyway.

In my humble opinion, even if your stuff is out and away, it's still stuff. Heck -- we considered getting a storage unit at one time. Why bother?! This is stuff that you might not need for years . . . or, truly, EVER AGAIN.

So, why bother giving it any more of your energy, time, or money?

You're wasting money.


At least we did. I can't even begin to tell you the dollars we have spent on cube organizers, shelving, and other tools to wrangle our crap into better order. It's shameful, really. In the end, it always gets messed up again. We still accumulate too much. It was, for us, a losing battle. The more stuff we got, the more things we needed to store it in. The more places we needed for storage, the smaller we felt our house was, etc.

I feel like so many people think they need these gigantic houses because they need places to hold all their stuff. When I watch HGTV, closet space is like one of the top concerns. The host always jokes that the woman needs that gigantic walk-in closet. Our old house was 1,200 square feet. To be honest, we mostly lived in 1,000 square feet of it because one room was usually storage. Now? We have around 1,900 (1,600 above ground). I love our new house and neighborhood, but I can confidently tell you that living with two kids back at the old place would be totally fine.

Plus, you don't need big closets if your wardrobe is pared down to 50 or fewer items. You can get dressed much more quickly, too. Our old house was really lacking for closets. Somehow when we moved, we filled all these large closets that we didn't used to need. Weird, right?

I also discovered that we were wasting our money because with so much stuff, we always felt like we needed more -- well -- stuff. We were in this really bad cycle of consumption. Perhaps out of all this cleaning up, the biggest lesson we learned is that we needed to stop shopping for mindless entertainment. We needed to examine our priorities. And we needed to stop bringing so much crap home with us. It was draining our wallets and moving us farther from our core values.

You're wasting time.


When Stephen and I sat down together and examined our goals in life, the one that stuck out the most was that we wanted to have more time with one another. You know, time that isn't spent cleaning up toys or wading through excess. Or feeling stressed about money, etc. We just want to be with our little family and live a simple life, whatever that means at this stage.

You'd think organization would make cleanup easier, right? We have two 9-cube toy organizers in our basement, for example. And this is one of the few remaining problem areas of the house. You'd think organizing toys into separate boxes would make spaces clean. Nope. Instead, we filled the boxes. All of the boxes. Family bought gifts that filled all the boxes. All the boxes were overflowing. And with a 4-year-old, unless we spend time each day or week going through them, everything is out of place. A toy-plosion, if you will.

Not only we were wasting time trying to put toys away. Ada, too, was wasting time being overwhelmed by options. When I was younger, I would spend hours just . . . coloring. Or playing with one doll. Somehow, along the way -- toy options have gotten out of control. Kids seem to need everything and . . . they get it from well-meaning parents, relatives, and friends. But it's part of what's fueling the whole over-stimulation thing and, again, that over-consumption.

There's just too much!

More thoughts:


I'm sure you can see how this applies to most every area in your home. If you step into a Bed, Bed, and Beyond -- there are entire walls dedicated to useless kitchen gadgets. When you buy electronics, their lives seem to be ever-shortened, creating a whole junk drawer full of outdated cameras, phones, etc. Life didn't used to be this way.

So, I guess you could say we're rebelling. It's hard. The temptation is strong to go into a Target and walk out with a cart FULL of amazing things. Now that we're gotten rid of a good deal of the bins, the maintenance is our main effort. All it takes is saying NO. Walking away. Waiting to make purchases. Unlinking PayPal from online shopping accounts, etc.

In my next post, I'll do an updated house tour and highlight some problem areas we were able to kick into gear by purging. And as I wrote that last part, I think the how NOT to buy is another good area to write something about. I'm still learning the best methods. 

Is there anything more you'd like to hear about our big spring cleanup? Let me know in the comments!

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Quarter One Musings

>> Friday, April 15, 2016

Wow. You guys are awesome for sharing all those tips and suggestions for cloth diapering. I am feeling more confident that we'll be able to swing it this time around. I had forgotten that I was using Charlie's Soap toward the end, and someone mentioned that they didn't like it for diapers. I'm wondering if that's where our process started to go sour.

I have joined that Fluff Love Facebook group, too -- I can't believe how many people are a part of it! And maybe we'll install a sprayer. I tend to remember that in the exclusive breastfeeding days, the poo can sort of just clear away in the wash.

So, it's Friday. This weekend, we aren't expecting a snow storm! I almost can't believe the 10-day forecast. The highs are all mostly above 60 and even 70 in some cases.


If you don't follow me on Instagram, I'll just give you my excuse for being so quiet lately. Taxes! On top of Stephen's 11-12 hour weekdays and Saturdays away from home, I've been keeping up as much as possible with my freelance work . . . and then taxes got added into the equation these last two weeks and I almost imploded. We actually have an awesome accountant, but there were some loose ends that look me a while to tie up. It's all consuming for me, mentally and physically. Numbers are like a foreign language (and I never did well with those). But everything is signed and ready to be delivered. Goodbye, money.

As you can imagine, this entire month, I've been utterly immersed in our finances. And we knew this was coming, but as we draw ever-closer to June, the reality of having a summer baby on a teacher and freelancer income is  kind of freaking us out. (We didn't plan it this way, it's just how it happened, and we still feel immensely blessed!)

Thankfully, we're actually fine and able to shoulder the extra burden (we have six months of our budget saved), but it's definitely going to mean we need to watch things over the summer when I take my "leave" from writing (thinking 6-8 weeks of a hard break -- the good news is that most of my payments are on a one- or two-month lag schedule) and Stephen doesn't get paychecks for two months (he'll be switching over to a 12-month pay schedule next year). When classes resume in the fall, we'll get bumped back up again and all will be well.

Some frugal stuff we're planning:


  • Installing a DIY backyard clothesline (like these ones) to dry our duds in the fresh air. It's something we had at our old house, and I miss it. Electricity is expensive, so I'm wondering how making the switch to drying what we can outdoors will affect our bills.
  • Planting a garden with some of the easy-to-grow "essentials" that cost $$$ at the grocery store, like tomatoes and basil. I think spring has finally arrived, so I really need to get on the whole gardening thing if it's going to happen this year. The problem right now is just getting the time to do it.
  • Switching our internet. We have Time Warner Cable, and I am TOTALLY not impressed. We only want internet, not cable. Somehow, we were able to get a "deal" on our internet by adding very basic television that we only watch on Thursdays for Grey's Anatomy (and if we waited one night, we could see it on Hulu). The bill keeps climbing, so we're surveying our very limited options and hopefully seeing if they'll just drop our bill. Does anyone have that $14.99 plan? Would that work with Netflix?
  • Evaluating our central air usage. We let the thing blast all the time in the summer because it's convenient and comfortable. But I actually love opening windows and getting some breeze indoors. I want to get smarter about how we use it, but I also need to remain realistic because we'll have a newborn and I don't want the inside boiling, sticky hot.
  • Ever lowering our grocery budget. Being pregnant has shifted things a bit. And I know breastfeeding will, too. I want to get better at making meals in bulk again and maximizing what we do with the ingredients we have. For those of you on a tight food budget -- is it an ongoing battle? We do so well for so long and then BOOM, it's back to square one.
  • Retooling our overall budget to assess how much I'll need to work in the year after Baby E. is born. With Stephen taking on two coaching positions, his income has been bumped. It also takes a great deal of time I used to have for working myself. I need to figure out how we'll balance having an infant with all this and see what realistically I can do. I am thinking it'll be in 6 month phases. I see myself being able to be back at the hours I do now (20-30) when the baby is 18 months old. 
  • Planning a free-fun summer. We won't be vacationing this year by choice. Everyone tried to get us to go down to the shore, but I don't think a beach vacation with a newborn sounds like fun at all. I want to find lots of frugal stuff to do this summer and make a plan so we feel refreshed and recharged between all the sleep loss madness.
  • Paying down our car. We have two car payments right now. It's not ideal, but it ended up being a necessity. One of them has less than $5,000 left on it, and with anything we end up having extra in the budget, I'd like to toss it at paying this debt down ASAP to free up around $200/month in our budget. Aside from the cars, we both have about $10,000 left in student loans -- but that's it for our debt beyond mortgage.
That's what's been on my mind this week. I have a tasty and incredibly simple recipe ready for post on Monday (Mexican quinoa salad!), a pregnancy update, and I'll return to the final installments of the whole spring cleaning series.

HAPPY FRIDAY!

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Our House Cleaning Routine

>> Friday, April 8, 2016

Skipping ahead of myself again to share something I've been meaning to write up for quite some time. Our cleaning routine! And the reason I've wanted to write about it but haven't is because we weren't in a good groove . . . and I thought posting would help push us in the right direction. Well, now that we've cleaned and cleared out in our minimalist efforts, everything is falling much better into place.

Here's how we approach cleaning our spaces, how often we clean what, and what things we tend to leave for longer periods of time. Note: I'm not slating this as some "best practices" kind of post. Just merely sharing what we do. I'd love to hear how you approach cleaning in your everyday life!


Everyday


#1: The kitchen tends to be the busiest spot in our home. I typically cook most of our meals and snacks from scratch to help save money in the budget for other areas. As a result, I use my food processor, blender, stand mixer, slow cooker, and multiple pots and pans almost daily. Holy dishes! Cleaning the kitchen consists of getting the dishes through the washer and putting them away. Cleaning any kitchen tools we've used. Wiping up crumbs and grime from counter tops. Sweeping any big messes off the floor. This isn't a deep clean, it's simply to keep things running smoothly.

#2: Tidying up clutter. I run through the main areas of the house regularly throughout the day and attempt to keep whatever near its "right place." Ada's toys are the things that migrate around mostly. We have a few baskets in the living room to put blocks and a few other quiet toys in. Stuffed animals are her favorite, so I find them everywhere. It's not a big deal if they're around, but there's something so soothing about walking around the house at night and it's all clear for the next day.

Also: We've been getting Ada in on the task because we've put a metal bucket at the bottom of the stairs. In the evenings, we ask her to get anything that belongs in her room and put it in the bucket so we can put it back before bedtime.

#3: Paperwork. This is something new we've attempting to tackle every single day. We noticed that so much of the crap we've been stashing for far too long was junk mail and other documents that could be cleared out almost immediately. I don't know what our hangup was. Now I try to recycle junk mail and take care of other random papers coming into the house the day we receive them. It's a work in progress.


Every Other Day


#1: We vacuum the floor on the main level of the house just about every other day. A lot of this ends up being mess from eating in the dining room, cooking in the kitchen, or general crumbs and dirt from the outdoors.

#2: Laundry. I'd like to get on a better, less frequent schedule with washing laundry. Part of this battle has been paring down our wardrobes. Part of it has been being more patient if favorite clothes are soiled. I think we could be better at waiting longer between loads, but it seems like we're doing at least a few every other day. I wrote a whole article about how we should wash our clothes less often for Wisebread a few years ago, it's an interesting read!

#3: Recycling. We have a huge bin for recycling in our kitchen and we try to empty it into the garage bin about every other day. But here's the problem -- I don't know WHY we seem to have so many boxes, plastics, and other things going through the house. This should be a once a week thing in my opinion. I'm really trying to examine why we have so much packaging. BTW: Check out this great article about Surviving a Week of Zero-Waste Shopping. We have a lot of work we could do in this area. Oh, goals!


Once a Week


#1: Bathrooms. I feel like our bathrooms get so dirty so fast! We tend to give them a total clean once a week, consisting of cleaning the toilet, wiping down the sink (toothpaste + 4-year-old = ugh!), spritzing the mirrors, and clearing out any empty containers.

#2: We vacuum the basement carpet once a week. If it needs to be cleaned more often, we can't ever tell because it's all different shades of brown and masks things well. I would like to get a shampooer to give the thing a good wash a few times a year. Anyone rent or buy one and have experiences to share?

#3: We wash our paperless towel system once a week -- sometimes more if we've been using a lot of them.

#4: Bedrooms. I'll just tell you I don't make our bed every day. I probably make it once a week. I used to make it mostly daily, but since being pregnant, I crawl in and out on occasion -- so I figure, what's the point? Ada's bed is the same way because she's still napping. And as good as we are with washing our clothing, we are slow to put it away. This is something I'd like to work on because having calm, clean sleep spaces is important. They're not horrible, but I hate seeing laundry piles.

#5: Change sheets. I say weekly because that's what we usually do. But if I'm being totally honest, there are times when maybe two weeks go and we don't change the sheets. Still, I try to keep this a weekly thing. If I can remember to do it before bedtime, I'm golden. If I continue to stay up too late, it doesn't get done in a timely manner. Is that gross? Probably.

#6: Trash. I am surprised this doesn't go out more frequently. Somehow, we haven't had a ton of actual trash. It's more about the recycling. Of course, if something smells or is full, we take it out right away. But usually we do the bathroom bins once a week on trash night. The kitchen has been mostly once a week since we started composting. There are always exceptions to the rule, but -- yeah.


Less Often


#1: So, we don't really vacuum upstairs all that often. It's a mix of being too lazy to take the vacuum up the stairs and the fact that we don't wear shoes or eat much up there, so there's less mess to contend with. I'd say we end up doing it every other week or every three weeks (is that awful? it's been working well for us!).

#2: I have this thing about cleaning our windows. I mean, most people I talk to don't worry about it but once a season. I really like to give ours a good scrub once a month or so. I think having plantation shutters also exposes more dust that needs to be cleaned. So, I use some homemade cleaners and spritz everything about once a month.

#3: Dusting. I feel kind of weird admitting that I don't like to dust, so I don't do it often. I mean, dust accumulates, but it never seems terribly overpowering to me. If if notice a lot of dust, I'll of course wipe it up. Otherwise, I'd say I don't dust more than once a month. I think that's one benefit of having less furniture, too!

#4: OK, so I do a surface cleaning of the kitchen every day and it keeps things sane for a while. I do a deep clean probably every three weeks to a month. Like wiping out and clearing out the refrigerator. Cleaning the (outside) of the stove. Digging into the pantries to see what's expired. That kind of stuff. In an ideal world, I'd do this weekly or every other week.

#5: Wiping down furniture. I clean off the dining set about once a month unless I see something on it from an afternoon art project. We also recently washed and conditioned our leather couch after about a year of letting it go. We should probably vacuum under couch cushions more regularly. And one area I'm always embarrassed about? Underneath our bed. I don't know how so many clothes, toys, dust bunnies, etc. end up there . . . but they do, in droves.

#6: Closets. As we've gotten rid of more, we've needed to clean our closets far less often. Only a few sets of sheets helps with the linen closet. Fewer clothes means less mess in our bedroom closets. The worst closet in the house, though, is in the craft room. When I say we're mostly done with our leaning out, it's because the office/craft room is still a mishmash of things. We're working on it, and I hope to do a before/after really soon!

So, that's our general cleaning schedule. I have probably forgotten something major and you've all wondering WHY I don't clean whatever it is . . . but I assure you, there's nothing smelly or too terribly disgusting lurking inside these walls.

Happy Friday, friends!

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How We Purged // Spring Clean

>> Friday, April 1, 2016

There's really no secret tip or trick for the best way to actually go through your stuff. For us, it made the most sense to touch everything -- or at least get our eyes on each item. Tedious? Indeed. But this way we could ensure that we weren't parting with anything that was actually important or critical (which is particularly key when going through old paperwork!).


Our Method


Here's what we did. It may or may not make sense in your situation:

  • First cleared out the main house from anything -- like extra furniture -- we didn't want. This uncovered all sorts of stuff that had been hiding in nooks and crannies. We created a few "miscellaneous" bins and put them in the garage for further investigation.
  • We also went through closets, drawers, and cabinets for the same reason. More misc. boxes came out to the garage to be staged for the next step.
  • Then we went bin by bin in our garage (it was helpful to have an outdoor space so close to our car) and started sorting things by where we intended to take it. (You can read more about that below.)
  • As we got enough stuff to take to a certain place, we'd clear some of it out. For example, we took two trips to the Salvation Army in one day to make room for more organization. Then later that day, we decided to take a trip to the trash place with our construction waste, again, to make more room to continue on.
  • Anything we were keeping was promptly put into it's right place in the house. In the case of sentimental stuff, we did put it back in labeled bins that went down to the basement. 
  • And then we just kept at it. We took more trips to the drop-offs and kept clearing out. After not too long, the space was clearing and we could breathe again.
  • We saved our paperwork for last. We took our time on this one because we didn't want to get rid of any documents that might be important in the long run. 
  • Then we decided to go through the house just once more to make sure there wasn't anything left that we could part with. We actually got another van load from our second go-through. I think it's because once we got started, we realized how freeing it is to purge. And it helped put the stuff in perspective . . . so we were ready to just let go.

Where Stuff Went


Salvation Army

The majority of things went to our local donation center. We even called a number the person at the checkout gave us for some furniture pickup that's scheduled for next Tuesday. Always make sure to get a receipt so you can write off your donations next year at tax time.

Once Upon a Child

This is a store in my area (and I think in other areas) that buys gently used and good quality kids stuff from toys to clothing. We sold a bunch of things we know we won't need with baby #2 here. And you know how I found a brand new BOB stroller at Target on clearance a few months ago? We sold our old one (it was in OK condition) for $75! I think that's a great return on that. With everything we sold (which was only a small box), we made out with nearly $200 without having to host a yard sale.

thredUP

I sent some of my nicer clothing to thredUP and am waiting to see how much $$$ I'll get. It's always worth a try to send clothes off (or go to your local consignment shop) to see if you can get anything for them before donating.

Waste

We had a lot of construction waste, like old boards with rusty nails, etc. We took all this stuff to our local center to dispose of it properly. In addition, we took some trashed computers and other recycling there because they know what to do with it. Just make sure you've cleared off any information that could potentially be taken. You never know.

Friends, etc.

We did find some things we thought our friends could use, so we asked and gave as the opportunity arose. I like the idea of having clothing swaps and the like. We have done that even with kitchen things in the past. It takes a village.


What did we do with Ada?


So many people have asked where Ada was during all this cleaning. Well, I estimate that we spent around 4 hours a day actively sorting and taking trips. We used Stephen's spring break versus doing something fun, so it was a big sacrifice. But we did the bulk of it during nap time (Ada slept 2 hours most days). Now that she's four, though, she was able to hang around us and even help. Her favorite part was taking small boxes to the van for donation.

In other words: It wasn't hard. I don't know what it would be like trying to do this with more kids, but we've always been able to do house projects and stuff with Ada right alongside us. Don't let it be an excuse!

OK. It's Friday, so next week I'll start off with a post I'm calling "why simple organizing doesn't work." We're getting close to the end, so if you have any more questions about this process -- let me know!

And don't forget to catch up on this series:

Eliminating the Maybe
7 Clutter Categories
Cleaning Week Snapshots
Wannabe Minimalists

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Eliminating the Maybe // Spring Clean

>> Wednesday, March 30, 2016

So, let's back up for just a minute. Did you know that there's a mental cost to clutter? Like, it has the power to make or break your daily life? I suppose I knew this on some intuitive level, but after doing more research + purging of my own -- I can truly tell you, it's true! For example, I'm a very visual person, and seeing lots of stuff around is actually quite over-stimulating and distracting.

And think of it this way: If you have lots of crap in your attic, you literally have weight hanging over your head. Then come the feelings of guilt or even embarrassment when, say, you can't open your garage door without everyone on your block seeing your mess. Oh, yeah, and it's nice to finally know where my birth certificate is because, well, I didn't know for the bulk of the last year -- talk about stressful.

I mulled over all this during our spring cleaning escapades last week. How did we have so much stuff? Why did we have so many bins of things I wasn't quite sure if I could part with? And why -- after having major cleanings before -- did the things keep piling up year after year?

Then it clicked. I wasn't truly letting go.


When I've organized and cleared out in the past, I've approached it by creating piles.
  • Trash
  • Donate
  • Sell
  • Keep
  • Maybe 
The thing is, that maybe pile kept getting carried over and over again every time I'd go to organize. (And, seriously, this whole minimalism thing is about so much more than just material objects. I'll get to that in my feelings post.) We schlepped a lot of maybe things from our college days to apartments. We schlepped a lot of things from old apartments to our first house. We then schlepped even more maybe things from our first house to our current house.

The maybes kept piling up and up and up.


What was in these boxes? Clutter -- in this order -- from these categories.
  • Clothing
  • Someday Stuff
  • Gifts
  • Forgottens
  • Sentimentals
. . . Maybe someday those size 2 jeans will fit me again.

. . . Maybe I'll find a use for that fancy vase I've still not taken out of the box.

. . . Maybe I'll want those hundreds of photos of people I can't remember.

. . . Maybe we'll start entertaining outdoors more and need that patio dining set.

. . . Maybe that stained chair can be reupholstered if we save our pennies.

. . . Maybe I'll want two different baby gyms for Baby E.

I think you see where this is all going. It's a clutter purgatory of sorts. So, when we did cleaning this time, we eliminated the maybe category and had to get a lot more decisive about all this stuff we had been carrying around from place to place for the last decade or more. Mostly, the answers became:

NO.
Get rid of it.
I haven't looked at that in years.
I totally forgot about that.
No, I have no desire to exercise and diet to fit into all these old clothes.
We have too many dishes already.
Etc., etc., etc.

For our clothing, we tried a modified KonMari approach -- both of us -- where we simply held the item, decided if it "sparked joy" (not necessarily if it was practical to hold onto or anything like that), and said a hard YES or NO from there. And now my seasons of clothing fit neatly into narrow sliding containers. I have 25 items in my closet currently -- but I won't delve too deeply into this part because I'm pregnant and it's not the best time to talk about a capsule wardrobe.

There was no special trick to letting go. It was more of a mentally ready moment. And this idea can actually carry over into other areas of your life. I mean, how often do we say MAYBE when we really mean yes or no? Whoa. That gets deep!

This post got much longer than I intended. I have had such great feedback with sharing about our journey to wannabe minimalism, I may add a few posts to my original plan. (Like -- tomorrow will now be that post on how we got rid of everything.) I hope that's alright! If you have questions or comments -- leave them down below. I'm happy to answer anything and everything.

Happy Wednesday!

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7 Clutter Categories // Spring Clean

>> Tuesday, March 29, 2016

When we set out to start our spring cleaning, we were dealing with a lot of different obstacles. We just didn't know where to start. So, we decided to think about the different categories of stuff we had cluttering up our house on the inside and out. It helped us get in the right mindset to go through whatever we encountered and -- then -- to bust through.

Once we got a handle on all that, our plan of attack became much more clear.



Clothing


Of everything, clothing seems to suck up the most space in our house. For me, it's from my ever-changing body. I was one size before I had Ada. Another size afterward. And another size last year. Now I'm pregnant and have two general sizes of maternity clothing. That's just me. Ada had WAY TOO MANY CLOTHES to even pass along to Baby E. The way we could tell our clothing was out of control? We had bins upon bins of it in the garage. We also had quite a laundry pileup on the daily.

Someday Stuff


This is stuff we were hanging onto for one reason or another. Like, just in case we might need a random chair someplace in the house. Or that extra tricycle someone found at a garage sale. Basically, this category is really broad and showcases our mini hoarding from either getting deals on stuff, buying multiples, or generally over-consuming.

Trash


Then there were boxes of papers and documents that we were hold onto because we didn't know what to do with them. Or they needed shredding and we hadn't gotten around to it. Stuff like old checkbooks, tax returns from the early 2000s, mortgage paperwork from our first house, computers that hadn't been hooked up since college, etc., etc., etc. We had several bins full of this stuff we were simply too afraid to throw away. On top of that, we found a bunch of items that were broken beyond repair that we were holding onto thinking maybe someday we'd figure out how to salvage them.

Gifts


Well, not necessarily gifts . . . but stuff we came into possession of whether we wanted to or not. We're talking bags of clothing from friends and family. Random toys or other items that were either duplicates or just never used. And a lot of this stuff we had said YES to accepting, etc. This category is really tricky, guys. Because we're always thankful at the generosity of others. A lot of times, we can all benefit from sharing things. But there are other times when the influx of stuff is just overwhelming. Then there's guilt for getting rid. Right?

Sentimentals


Yearbooks. Photos. Albums. Old sheet music from sophomore choral and band festivals. Video tapes, CDs, and DVDs from life events, college papers. I mean, you name it -- we have it. This is a category we are still dealing with because we didn't want to purge and regret. I'll get more on this in my next post.

Demo Remnants 


We work on our house. A lot. So, in the winter, we tossed demo materials in the garage for spring cleaning only to find out that our trash collection no longer takes these items. In all, we had the leftovers of a huge tool bench from the basement, several doors that we had replaced in the house, and other odds and ends of splintery, nail-poked wood.

Forgottens


Last, there were boxes of things we would open and be like -- WHAT? I don't even remember this stuff? And you know what we did with those boxes? We sort of looked through them, just to make sure nothing important was mixed in. But if it had been out of sight and out of mind long enough for us to forget -- we donated them immediately.


Stay tuned! In tomorrow's post, I'm going to talk about how we dealt with these categories from a letting go perspective. How we decided what to keep, what to give away, and how we were able to make $200 from selling a few things.

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Snapshots // Spring Clean

>> Monday, March 28, 2016

Stephen's spring break was all last week. And, no. We didn't jet off to some tropical location for a vacation. Instead, we decided to dedicate most of this chunk of time to our wannabe minimalist + organization goals. After over 4 hours each day (about 36 hours total!) of dedicated cleaning, fixing, and tooling around in the house -- we're probably 90 percent of the way done.

Ninety percent! It feels SO GOOD.

I have decided to dedicate this week on the blog to spring cleaning. Today I am going to show you a few teaser photos from our progress. Another day, I'll be sharing some tips we found handy for dealing with the various types of clutter we encountered. Yet another day, I'll go over some of the methods we used to clear everything out. I'll try to get an updated house tour up to show the before and afters. And then there will probably be some reflection on how this all makes us feel (surprisingly, it's had a huge impact already).

Sound like a plan, friends?


The garage was our main area of focus. These photos aren't current -- it was actually WORSE than this. We had 23 bins of random stuff that we either hadn't gone through since our move or that were disorganized. And a lot of these items were things we were just holding onto for some reason. Oh, we also hadn't put a car in the garage in like a year. (Nothing like airing our dirty laundry nooks + crannies, eh?)

We were especially lazy with old paperwork and things that needed shredding.


Anyway, here's a few progress shots.


But this is only the tip of the iceberg. I have so much to share! You don't need to dedicate an entire week of time all at once to cleaning your spaces. You can split it up. We decided on this intensive boot-camp approach because Stephen's track schedule is about to go wild with late night and all day meets -- before Baby E comes, we didn't see any other opportunity.

Have you made headway on organization goals recently? What's your method?

I'll be back tomorrow with some practical tips we learned along the way.

(PS: I'm 27 weeks! Anxiously awaiting my gestational diabetes screening results today...)

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Spring Cleaning // Wannabe Minimalist

>> Tuesday, March 8, 2016

The weather has taken a major turn toward spring this week. Today's high should reach close to 60 degrees! Though I'm sad and frustrated we didn't get a single snowstorm this year, I'm ready for change and sun and warmth and, well, spring cleaning.

Because this year? I think we're ready for the big purge.


No, this isn't my junk. I took this photo several years ago outside a Salvation Army after we had donated some things post move. Honestly, this photo stresses me out to the max. Though I'm not the tidiest person ever, I very often get overwhelmed with the sheer amount of stuff we have in our house, our garage . . . and with how much that stuff just continues to accumulate year after year despite our efforts to pare down.

Seriously -- how does this happen when we have good intentions? With a baby on the way, the stuff issue has been even more at the forefront of our minds. We want to get a handle on this before she arrives in June.

I don't want to utter the word minimalism, but -- yes -- OK I do. I just went there. I rolled my eyes a bit, too. It's so darned trendy . . . but I think we might be ready to adopt some of those principles. They simply make sense!

We're asking ourselves some questions inspired by this great post on Zen Habits.
  • Is all this stuff important? (Obviously the answer is no.)
  • What can we get rid out without regret?
  • How can we stop attaching regret to things anyway?
  • What are our family's core goals and how does paring down fit in? (Definitely ease of cleaning our home to make it more calm is a big one these days.)
  • Can we purge without replacements? (We've tried editing down several times in the past only to end up replacing the old with new, defeating the entire purpose)
  • How can we bring these ideas to other parts of our lives? (Simplifying our meals, social calendars, etc.)
With the home stuff, we're hoping to use Stephen's spring break to go room by room to start clearing out. We have some pieces of furniture that do little more than collect stuff and dust. Then I'll probably go through this Guide to Creating a Minimalist Home for the rest. Hopefully I can blog about it along the way.

Like I said, we've tried this whole idea many times. I think this time it might work better because Stephen is really on board this time around. It takes the commitment and energy from the whole family to get this sort of thing going, eh? Stay tuned for an update later in the month.

What are your spring cleaning goals? 

Have you successfully adopted a minimalist home or gotten close? 

What are your tips for making work -- especially if you have kids!

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Sweet Strawberries

>> Monday, June 8, 2015

Ada’s grandparents gave her a strawberry bush this year. It lives on our deck, and it’s finally bearing its first fruits of the season. Even better, we can pick up huge two-pound cartons of strawberries right now for like $4. Basically, we’re swimming in delicious strawberries. I thought it’d be fun to pull together some of my favorite recipes from across the blog (and the web).

Yum.


SWEET STRAWBERRY RECIPES



PS: Do you guys remember my Richard Simmons series?! If not, you totally need to check it out. I can’t find my book, but browsing all the crazy awkward photos just now was, well, amazing.


What’s your favorite way to use strawberries?

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Recycled Bird Feeders and Oral Health

>> Thursday, June 4, 2015



It’s finally spring! After the long, cold winter we had, I’m so much enjoying the warmer, sunnier weather and being outdoors again. This is our first spring in our new house, and we’ve already noticed that we get many more critters over here than we did at our last place.

Since our property backs up to a creek, we’ve especially noticed a greater variety in birds flying around. We thought it would be fun to set up a few feeders in trees so Ada could get more up close and personal. I started shopping around, but then quickly remembered making birdhouses and feeders out of old milk cartons when I was a kid. I thought this project would be fun for Ada to help me with as we begin to enjoy this new season.


STEP 1:

Clean out a used milk or juice container. We used this lemonade one, and I like how it has the round cap for eventually hanging the bird feeder in a tree. I even used the artwork to guide my cuts in the next step.


STEP 2:

Cut out access points/windows using an X-ACTO knife or scissors. I strongly suggest the adults do this part because cutting through cardboard can be tricky. There’s really no right or wrong way to do it. Just create enough space so a bird can go inside. You’ll want at least one window, but you can make as many as you like of all different shapes and sizes.


STEP 3:

(Optional) Paint your bird feeder. I used a thin coat of some leftover indoor/outdoor spray paint we had in the basement. You can also just leave your container as is or paint using something that won’t immediately wash off. I’ve also seen people use colored tapes, buttons, twigs, etc.


STEP 4:

Use string to feed through the top spout and then through a hole you can poke in the back for hanging. I used some yarn, but I think twine might work best.


STEP 5:

Fill with bird food. We purchased a good amount at our Christmas Tree Shops for less than $2. Just spoon the food into the bird feeder until it’s full. You can also add a perch if you like, but in my experience, the birds do fine either way.

And then you’re done! We’ve had ours up since the very first days of spring (when there was still even some snow on the ground!) and it’s holding up great!


This post is sponsored by Aquafresh® toothpaste in an effort to remind each of us -- young and small -- to practice good brushing habits this spring (and all year long!). Obviously sugary, acidic beverages, like my beloved lemonade, are delicious to sip in the warm weather . . . in moderation. However, they can certainly wreck havoc on our teeth and gums.

I’m actually quite self-conscious about my teeth. I was born with low tooth enamel due to a medication my mom took for hyperemesis gravidarum during her pregnancy. It was black boxed several months after she had finished her dosage. Anyway, I need to be particularly careful about my oral hygiene (we all should), which is why I’ve decided to share this information with you in this campaign.

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  • Don’t forget to also brush your tongue and floss! Your gums trap food and plaque between teeth where the brush can’t as easily access. 
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Grilled Veggie Quesadillas

>> Thursday, May 7, 2015

One of our favorite family meals = Grilled Veggie Quesadillas. I can buy all the ingredients I need at Aldi on the cheap. In fact, this dinner usually makes it into our weekly rotation, no matter what. So, for Cinco De Mayo this year, I thought I’d get a few fun ingredients to kick them in overdrive. I also picked up a quesadilla grill basket for the long outdoor eating season ahead.

I guess I should note first that we loved this dinner so much, I actually forgot to snap photos of the finished product. Oops!


GRILLED VEGGIE QUESADILLAS


To make this dinner, I planned ahead. I roasted the following veggies at 375 degrees F for around 45 minutes. Of course, you can grill your veggies first and then assemble -- but weeknights sometimes require a little forward thinking if we want to cook out. I found it helpful to cut veggies into large chunks and then cut them smaller once they were roasted/cooled.
  • Cauliflower
  • Poblano peppers
  • Onion
  • Portabella mushrooms
  • Use whatever you like, though!
From there, I had some small stone ground corn tortillas that I piled with a layer of veggies. I’ll be honest: I don’t think the tortillas I used were great on the grill. You have to like them almost chip-like crisp in the end. Kind of sharp. They still taste amazing, but when we make these again, I’m going to use softer flour tortillas.

Pile like so . . .


After the veggies comes the CHEESE.

I used a seasoned taco mix I found at Wegmans.


From there, add another tortilla on top. Alternatively, you can use larger tortillas, pile up half with toppings and fold into a crescent. Either way, you’ll load your into the quesadilla grill basket. Secure the top. I was amazed and how well it held everything in place. Brush with a little olive oil.

Then place on your grill --  you’ll want the cover closed -- for several minutes (around 5 -- depending) on each side until lightly browned. The cheese will be melty. The veggies nice and hot. Seriously, we started munching on one before we got everything to the table.

Slice and enjoy!


We served ours with some Roasted Tomatillo + Corn Salsa I made last August and had frozen. Also some Greek yogurt and lots of hot sauce. Next time I’ll be sure to snap a finished photo. If they last!

I can’t wait to cook our first pizza on the grill. Seriously. If I lived in a warmer climate, I think I’d be a much happier person. Being outside in the warmth and sunshine makes me feel like an entirely different person. I will certainly cherish these next several months until we’re in the deep freeze again.

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Spring Bucket List

>> Friday, April 3, 2015

It was like a whole new world outdoors yesterday. Yeah, there was still some stubborn snow on the ground. (And, yeah -- we’re getting more over the weekend.) But we don’t take walking outdoors without coats (and shoes -- in my case!) for granted. Even in April. Here are a few things on our spring wish list for 2015.

I think it’s going to be a good one.


#1: Finish projects. We have several projects in our home that we started and never finished. Painting is a big one, and we’ve already spent some time this week checking rooms off the list. I have a few things to complete in the kitchen, but I’ll be writing more about this stuff soon.

#2: Hike in nature. We didn’t do much of the whole hiking thing with Ada when she was a baby. But we’d like to start taking her to more local natural attractions. So, some hikes in the Finger Lakes are in order.

#3: Take a weekend getaway. We don’t have the means to travel much, but I’d like to go on a one or two night trip somewhere -- with Ada -- within close driving distance. Maybe the ADK or down in PA. Not quite sure yet. Suggestions?

#4: Go river rafting down Pine Creek. There’s an all day 17-mile trek that Stephen and I would like to check out before the waters dry up in the summer.

#5: Cook out. Time to bust out the grill for the season and start cooking up some meals al fresco. I’m thinking grilled pizza is on the top of my list. I need to perfect that method/recipe.

#6: Do some landscaping. New year, new house. We want to start looking at landscaping. We won’t be able to do it all this year, but I have pinned some ideas of flowers and plants that I like. Can’t wait to get our yard looking lush.

#7: Visit family. Along with other mini trips, we’d like to get down to visit both families at least a couple times before the summer. Ada doesn’t have cousins, so it’s nice to see her spend time with Stephen’s cousins’ children in particular.

#8: Race here and there. I don’t have a ton of races on the calendar, but I’d like to do a few in the time I have before TTC again. After a few weeks of ramping up mileage from zero to, well, anything -- I’m planning to follow this intermediate 10K plan for the Laurel Festival 10K in June.

#9: Frequent festivals. There are lots of big and small festivals that go on in our area -- and we haven’t been to most of them. I want to get out there and experience the culture (food, music, fun) our area has to offer versus always wishing I was living elsewhere.

#10: Advance the homestead. Along with making the yard look pretty with more plantings, I want to get our composting system going and plant our vegetable garden. I think I might be a bit too late to get my seeds started (I had such good plans!), but I may end up getting some plants from a local nursery this year.

What’s on your spring bucket list?

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Happy Spring!

>> Wednesday, March 21, 2012

No. Today isn't just our deadline to pay the IRS part of our 2010 taxes (you read that right: 2010 -- long story, but we paid the wrong amount on our home-buyers credit and they are treating us like criminals, I tell you! Honest mistake!).

It's SPRING!


Of course, I don't need to tell you all how to make a smoothie.

Just toss frozen fruit,
some form of dairy/non-dairy/or water,
and sometimes veggies or ice, etc.
into a blender
and blend.

I guess you could file this one under smoothinpiration. (No. That term definitely won't catch on.)


Combine 1 cup frozen strawberries with 1 frozen banana and 1/2 cup pineapple chunks and 1/2 to 1 cup milk of your choice (I used 1%***). Add-ons include 1 tablespoon flax meal or a handful of other frozen berries or perhaps a handful of baby spinach.

***MILK?! We never buy actual cow's milk! Yeah. Get ready for it, we're making Greek yogurt. My friend Kelly gave me a recipe.


The warm temps this week and last have me on a huge smoothie-kick. (The one above is essentially the same recipe, substitution water for milk.) For other fun smoothie recipes, you can check out the Recipe Page.

I apologize for being short. Ada had her 4 month physical today. She's growing right along, but girl got a lot of shots and is appropriately cranky. I need to comfort her now. If you missed yesterday's Writing Chapter Three post, it's a great $5 Dinner for Three: Lemon-Garlic Pasta with Asparagus Sprigs and Caramelized Onions. I'm going to start a series of $5 dinners, so keep checking back!

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Weekend Adventure

>> Monday, May 3, 2010


Stephen and I biked to a nearby town this weekend -- a ride totaling 42 miles in all. This may not seem like a lot to you bike folks out there. But, as you'll see in a moment . . . we're not exactly serious cyclists. So, 42 miles is a trek for us, for sure.

Stephen has a mountain bike and I have a hybrid. And along our way, we ran into (well, were passed on the other side of the road by) "real" cyclists. Many of them waved. A few ignored us. I was the only female of the entire bunch.



Stephen's Garmin died on the way over, but we estimate our speed to be somewhere between 16 and 18 miles an hour. Not too bad considering the route was all rolling hills. Oh, and we each hadn't put our butt to bike seat in over a year. Truth be told, we didn't ride nonstop -- our "ride" took place from 9AM to 1PM, which included some walking across construction bridges, etc.


It was super sunny, hot, and humid, so when we got to our destination, we took a much-needed break.



There were some fun things to do in town. A book shop. A coffee shop. Lots of little shops, really.





As well as a river walk . . .




There was even time for yoga and cookie eating!



Overall, biking away half the day Saturday was a great, inexpensive (in all, I think we spent $4 getting a cookie and coffee) way to enjoy the weekend. We're definitely planning to do it again sometime soon. But now I'm wondering what you all did this weekend. Let us know by leaving a comment or emailing us at neverhomemaker@gmail.com. Up here in Upstate, it was amazing. We spent most of our time outdoors.

Here are a few other pics from the trip. Enjoy!







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